I will speak up if I think something is unfair, unjust etc but I could not do it with someone screaming at me. I’d have to say that I’d come back to it later when the situation was calmer. I grew up in a shouty violent household and had the misfortune to marry someone with a nasty temper. I just shut down when people start yelling because I know they’re not listening, they’re just angry and lashing out.
Jamie was acting very transactionally there I think. She was saying you owe me because I’m Muma Bear and if you don’t apologise how I want you to, then I won’t listen and I won’t be your friend. I will also throw you under the bus with your partner too, if I have that dirt on you (Veronica).
I genuinely think everyone is worse off now than they were before.
However, it is all so edited that we may not really be getting a true reflection of how it went down. I’ve loved Jamie up to now, so I’m
hoping this was just a really bad moment for her.