MAFS Thread 11 prison pocket, prison pocket, where are you? I want to put my below dongles all over you.

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You must sing it along to the tune or it won't work.

I suspect Ross was probably teased/possibly bullied as a child for his disability and bulked up at the gym as a defence but isn't actually aggressive, just uses his bulk as a barrier to people trying to come for him. I hope that makes sense!

@Oneandahalfonagoodday that's the sense I get from Ross also.

Ross just looked really uncomfortable in that exchange with Alex. He was well out of his comfort zone. I thought it was all a show for Sasha, but it didn't pan out the way she wanted.

Yes I don’t like the way Ross seems to just be bending to be like Sacha wants him to be.
or it’s all just acting.

Ah yes, of course, Charlene, thank you.

There was potential teabag content in the dream! I was supposed to make a cup of tea with M&S for one of Gaston's helpers but forgot the sugar so it was all a bit of a damp squid 🐙😉

He's totally gonna realise how high maintenance she is. I predict a final vows dumping.

Sacha made a comment in last night's episode I think along the lines of 'Alex doesn't like it because I see him'. I think she's right and that's the reason she will never get an apology.

There's something about both being from the same place and being so familiar with how groups of people from that place behave.... she knows his type and isn't afraid to stand up to them. Maybe her ex was exactly like him and that's what made her lose control. Other times she has been eloquent and controlled.

I also see why she and Polly were questioning him about Hollie. They both suspect that he has been treating her badly off camera which is why she left. I think they are right and as much as the experts praise him, there is no way he's going to accept criticism or even have a discussion about any issues they have without getting defensive or accusing her of 'coming at him'(aka having a grown up discussion).

I find it very hard to relate to the behaviour of Holly, Polly and Sasha. I'd feel mortified if I behaved the way they did. And to do it on national television? I'd want to present my best self and I'd try to walk away from conflict or try and be a peacemaker. I appreciate they're in a high stress environment, but can anyone explain why they think it's ok to behave that way? ( I appreciate that it is highly edited, which is why it's so interesting to hear their interviews afterwards where you see a completely different side to them ).

lol. She not unattractive, but her hair and clothing style reminds me of a dowdy* 50 year old SAHW from the Home Counties. That's not a compliment.

*I am much older than 50. I am sometimes dowdy. I am currently a SAHW. I used to live in the Home Counties.

@mewkins yes I totally agree. I have people like this in my sphere - hence my rants about Alex 🤦‍♀️. When they know you see them theres no going back. They can't manipulate you anymore

Could the fact that Ross looked so uncomfortable in his exchange with Alex show that he isn’t accustomed to aggressive outbursts? Hopefully so. A shame that he ended up feeling cornered in to it.

I really don't like Sasha making Ross to be confrontational and defend her honour. He's said he doesn't like drama.

Yes he could have her back in a non confrontational way. Just by subtlety distancing themselves and no longer getting involved.

Also - did I imagine it or did Casper say he would ideally want to wife swap with polly?

Sasha and polly are absolutely awful nasty girls who still got the sweet taste of secondary school bullying on their tongue. Alex - I find him likeable.

@Teeh They said it's wife swap week next week and Casper said he'd like to be paired with Polly.

Alex and Sasha pair up incoming I suspect

Catching up but MY GOD why are the experts so utterly determined to pretend Alex is some wronged little fairy?? He is an aggressive abusive prick

You find Alex likeable?
or is that a typo 😆

I’m finding it hard to imagine how he can found likeable! What do you like about him?

agree 100% about the girls. Ugly personalities especially Holly and Polly. Sacra I thought was ok until last episode when she lost the plot.

Is that you Alex 😬

Or the Aunties. He's a mollycoddled horror.

In fairness, I can see why people can be drawn to him. He does seem so likeable and something endearing about him in moments. I do get it. For a minute I saw it myself and it triggered the empathetic part of me. It's very clever.

He hates women, that is very clear. He'll be punching pillows all over the place with people calling him out online. In his mind we're all a bunch of slags when we see him I'm sure🤷‍♀️

I feel so bad for Kieran 🥲 He looks proper stressed, it's weighing heavily on him (the knowing how hurt she's going to be). He's such a lovely guy.

I feel for both K and K. They both seem like genuine people with good hearts. It's such a shame refi the PMDD. It's a cruel thing that will probably always impact her relationships.

I did read somewhere that K has found the right meds for her. At least one good thing came from being on this show.