These "reluctant husband" stories always remind me of that "Sex and the City" episode, or was it Seinfeld, where rather than endlessly analyzing some man's behaviour, they discover the power of "he's just not that into you". Something many laydeez could learn from . Indded, I see there's now a self-help book by that name..... I give them six months. He'll probably have an affair and then marry someone else within a year. This tends to be the pattern innit.