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MAFS spoiler thread.

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marmiteadict · 25/09/2022 18:05

As the current thread is restricted only to discussing what is actually happening on the show, I thought I'd set up a spoiler thread where Instagram posts, Daily Mail articles etc are allowed to be discussed.

In no way is this meant to replace the main thread and discussions about the show. Just so that comments that are not allowed are able to be discussed.

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Prinnny · 29/09/2022 13:41

Yeah I’ve thought for a while that it will be Kwame that comes out as having a girlfriend.

As crude and OTT as Gemma has been I think the editing has being ridiculous, to allow it to be aired when Matt said she ‘masturbated in a restaurant’ was just purely for the drama and the headlines, the fully threw her under the bus.

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 13:43

@LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet no need to fancy each other, quite a few of the couples have nothing physical going on anyway.

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 13:49

I don't know what Kwame is hoping to get out of the process. He adds nothing and is clearly not interested in Kasia. I'd say he has a partner at home and is hoping the show will boost his career.

PollyDarton1 · 29/09/2022 14:38

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 13:41

That's the thing @burnoutbabe if it was a man doing this there would be an uproar. Gemma's been saying how her 'personality' was minimized on the show and slut shamed as her overtly sexual remarks/actions are just an expression of this. She really doesn't see that she was constantly overstepping. I'm no Matt fan, but he made it very clear that that wasn't his thing from day 1, yet she kept on and on and is now victimising herself.

I have to agree with this. Unless there is some seriously shady editing, and although Gemma said Matt was crude with his remarks on the wedding, it was clear from the offset that the remarks needed to be toned down and he asked her to do as such. I think he's a prick, and I don't doubt she feels horrible coming out of the process and with the editing, but she needs to own that she's vulnerable, needs validation and was far too brash for Matt (and indeed most people). Explaining that it's a sense of humour doesn't really cut it in a day and age where people say racist comments are just a 'joke' - it's arguably not as horrific, but making crude jokes and being sexually aggressive (which is what I saw it to be) isn't a good enough excuse. Just own it, rather than blaming other people.

I think Gemma is probably one of the more fame hungry ones in a lot of ways - she's posted her Only Fans, she's gone to the Mail, she's also posed with one of those cringe 'followers' balloons that show how many people are now following her a la low list influencers.

dillite · 29/09/2022 17:13

fairgame84 · 29/09/2022 13:41

I don't do Instagram so I don't know about the oyster. I assumed masturbation meant she was fiddling with herself under the table.

Masturbation wasn't menntioned on the show. Matt said that she simulated a sex act at the dinner table. Some of us then said that she probably pretended to give a blowhob to a sausage.

Midlifemusings · 29/09/2022 17:22

Gemma was in this for the exposure and the opportunity as much as anyone. She has realized now that she can get a lot of people to fall for her woe is me, poor misunderstood woman, evil misogynistic world angle and make money off this. A few tears and people fall over themselves sympathizer her and demonizing Matt.

She knows what she is doing.

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 17:31

Thomas: it's not my place to reveal what Adrian was about to say...

One IG story later...

Adrian exposed April as the one who was sagging the girls off but then blaming Thomas.

dillite · 29/09/2022 17:43

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 17:31

Thomas: it's not my place to reveal what Adrian was about to say...

One IG story later...

Adrian exposed April as the one who was sagging the girls off but then blaming Thomas.

Colour me all shades of surprised. Shocked to the core I am.

Puffalicious · 29/09/2022 17:44

I think Gemma is probably one of the more fame hungry ones in a lot of ways - she's posted her Only Fans, she's gone to the Mail, she's also posed with one of those cringe 'followers' balloons that show how many people are now following her a la low list influencers

Christ, this puts it in a different light . Fucking Only Fans. She will never learn. Her poor children.

dillite · 29/09/2022 17:45

Midlifemusings · 29/09/2022 17:22

Gemma was in this for the exposure and the opportunity as much as anyone. She has realized now that she can get a lot of people to fall for her woe is me, poor misunderstood woman, evil misogynistic world angle and make money off this. A few tears and people fall over themselves sympathizer her and demonizing Matt.

She knows what she is doing.

I agree with you. This also makes it hard for her to be called out on her unacceptable behaviour. She still sees absolutely nothing wrong with what she was saying or has acknowledged how it would make other people extremely uncomfortable being confronted by such vile language. You reap what you saw Gemma. And your fields are full of shit.

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 29/09/2022 17:51

@dillite i agree with everything you say.

As nuts as Gemma is, the real villains are still the people working for Channel 4 who must have know how damaged she is and then were happy to watch her walk into the lion’s den anyway.

Been listening to the MAFS hysteria podcast, and Paul the Ixpert was on. He’s been married to his wife for 21 years! He also said that in previous seasons viewers fed back that they were bored when marriages went well and everyone got on and that feedback has shown that viewers love drama so contestants are selected on compatibility with another contestant and the ability to make good TV. Interesting.

dillite · 29/09/2022 18:36

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 29/09/2022 17:51

@dillite i agree with everything you say.

As nuts as Gemma is, the real villains are still the people working for Channel 4 who must have know how damaged she is and then were happy to watch her walk into the lion’s den anyway.

Been listening to the MAFS hysteria podcast, and Paul the Ixpert was on. He’s been married to his wife for 21 years! He also said that in previous seasons viewers fed back that they were bored when marriages went well and everyone got on and that feedback has shown that viewers love drama so contestants are selected on compatibility with another contestant and the ability to make good TV. Interesting.

We have only had 2 seasons, one with no drama and one full of drama. How much feedback could there have been? I would rather watch people being boring and building good relationships, like the Sewing Bee or Bake Off. Than fake, manufactured drama.

browneyes77 · 29/09/2022 18:40

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 17:31

Thomas: it's not my place to reveal what Adrian was about to say...

One IG story later...

Adrian exposed April as the one who was sagging the girls off but then blaming Thomas.

Where on IG was this? I can’t see it on Adrian’s IG page?

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 29/09/2022 19:10

dillite · 29/09/2022 18:36

We have only had 2 seasons, one with no drama and one full of drama. How much feedback could there have been? I would rather watch people being boring and building good relationships, like the Sewing Bee or Bake Off. Than fake, manufactured drama.

There were about 5 seasons that used the ‘old’ format and that’s where the feedback that nice = boring came from

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 19:16

@browneyes77 its on Thomas' insta stories.

OneFrenchEgg · 29/09/2022 19:23

I also think that reality tv show producers have a duty of care to those indirectly affected - eg Gemma's children.
I think future generations will look back and be horrified at the reality tv shows and general lax regulation around dependents and also more widely the lack of protection for children - see vloggers

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 19:49

If the parents aren't concerned about the impact it's going to have on their heartbeats then I can't see why the show would. I really pity Gemma's dc, I can only imagine the playground jokes that are going around. And she's linking her OF on a public account.

dillite · 29/09/2022 20:02

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 29/09/2022 19:10

There were about 5 seasons that used the ‘old’ format and that’s where the feedback that nice = boring came from

Oh. I thought that there was only one nice season. Either way, that doesn't mean that they should have done a complete 180 and just made fake drama for ratings.

browneyes77 · 29/09/2022 20:20

beneathhereyes · 29/09/2022 19:16

@browneyes77 its on Thomas' insta stories.

Found it, thanks!

OneFrenchEgg · 29/09/2022 21:35

'We've checked out the science'
Hahahahhahahah

browneyes77 · 29/09/2022 21:35

They let them back into the experiment???

I don’t even know why I’m surprised. Knew this would happen.

FFS 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

browneyes77 · 29/09/2022 21:36

OneFrenchEgg · 29/09/2022 21:35

'We've checked out the science'
Hahahahhahahah

A.k.a: “We know it will cause a shit load of drama and be good for viewing figures”

Thegroaninggurner · 29/09/2022 21:37

No surprise they let Matt and Whitney back in is it? Considering Matt and Whitney are supposed to be really attracted to each other their body language seems to say different!

Thegroaninggurner · 29/09/2022 21:38

Wonder where in Manchester Adrian is from?

OneFrenchEgg · 29/09/2022 21:41

Why has his friend got her baps out? I'm distracted 😀

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