MAFS spoiler thread.

[marmiteadict]

As the current thread is restricted only to discussing what is actually happening on the show, I thought I'd set up a spoiler thread where Instagram posts, Daily Mail articles etc are allowed to be discussed.

In no way is this meant to replace the main thread and discussions about the show. Just so that comments that are not allowed are able to be discussed.

I was coming on to see if anyone had seen the drama! He’s vile, really showed his colours. I think Gemma was pissed off with him anyway with the comments he made about her in the Nando’s interview as she responded to it on her story. He’s got to be done now.

Here comes the apology.

Bye bye Thomas.

Thomas displays a classic abuse pattern: acts badly, gets called out, apologizes (and offers some sort of excuse), then victimizes himself. Rinse and repeat. I really hope things are over for him now, was so sick of him!

They were talking, in snidey tones, about how April’s mum abandoned her and then Thomas said “And Whitney’s mum abandoned her through natural causes….oh no it was a car crash hhahahahaha”.

Expected the pathetic apology. How many times can one man fuck up and then apologise - just don’t do it in the first place!!!

Ive seen a video clip of the podcast recording and Thomas is slinging back wine. I think he has a drink problem because his worst moments on the show were when he had a drink.

This absolutely!

Thomas was horrible from the hen’s night onwards. He was redeemed because he was occasionally funny with his comments and because he has flashes of vulnerability.

Since the show he’s been encouraged by the people around him to go bigger and bigger on the schtick, and he’s come undone.

I think he also got away with a lot because he’s gay and it’s meant to be seen as flamboyant and fabulous. Whereas if Kwame had been as aggressive as Thomas he’d have been booted early on.

Whitney has done a live IG story, she’s ok, just hurt, she comes across very well.

Think Thomas just got a drink in him and was wound up and egged on by those other presenters. He has said he was promised those bits wouldn't be broadcast. Still doesn't make it right. Actually feel sorry for him crying his heart out on his Instagram today about all the vile messages he's getting. If you listen to the bit about Jenna's dad it actually sounds like the other guys started on about walking a corpse down the aisle and he joined in.

That's how he keeps getting away with it @Stressybetty - crying and saying sorry and people then feeling sorry for him. He's a vile human with a rotten attitude. He seems rotten to the core to me!

I think there can be all sorts of excuses for Thomas because I've no doubt he has faced some pretty nasty behaviour before.

My question is how long can people continue to make excuses for him and when is enough enough ?

At the point someone is continuing the same cycle and making the same excuses it could well be time to back off and lose sympathy

Exactly.

The “they said they wouldn’t air those bits” - doesn’t take away from the fact he said them.

Jenna’s dad’s corpse comment - he could have shut it down.

Loads of people have trauma. I’m a CSA survivor, I’ve lost my dad and had a seriously shit life a lot of the time but I’m not a fucking nasty bully and I don’t hate women.

That’s another thing - funny how Thomas only ever picks on women and didn’t talk about Matt’s dying mum, only the parents of women.

Dont let the tears fool you

According to Jenna she hasn’t had a personal apology. Thomas is absolutely vile and deserves all the backlash he’s getting. It’s all very well blaming the podcast hosts but he’s not 4 years old he can’t say they egged him on.

I wonder if Kelly and Omar wouldn’t let him on MAFS Hysteria or he didn’t ask

Just seen Thomas’s IG sorry.

What a self serving little twat. Here’s a shortened version of it

”I made a mistake. So YOU never made a mistake?! Don’t come at me. What if I killed my self after a nasty message Z no need to send me nasty messages, everyone makes mistakes. I haven’t murdered anyone”.

It genuinely worries me that he works with people with MH issues.

Can't stand seeing people cry like that whatever he's done. He's been very stupid but people piling on his feed with nasty vile messages, no one needs trolling. He needs to calm down, lay off the drink and get some pr management

I think he deserves every message he gets, isn't he the 'authentic' one that 'says it as it is' ? It was such a pathetic attempt at a sorry anyway, he mostly just deflected and has tried to silence people with the suicide thing. Thomas was absolutely vile to select members of the cast, he knows exactly what he's doing.

Thing is he wasn’t so concerned when HE was being nasty to all the women in the experiment and spreading nasty gossip, potentially outing people’s hidden sexuality. So why should people give that kind of concern for him back? People like Thomas really need bringing down a leg or two because otherwise gets just carry on their vile behaviour - I have no sympathy at all for bullies who get a taste of their own medicine.

*peg

He also wasn’t crying he just looked incredibly annoyed

I don't believe anyone deserves nasty, vindictive messages on their social media and it will have been undoubtedly terrible for Thomas to read them.

But he does need to appreciate that as a result of his comments others will have faced just as vile personal attacks on their social media.

I dread to imagine the comments April and Whitney will have received about their alleged affair, that Jenna, April and Whitney will receive about their dead and absent parents. Thomas joked about it, so let's step it up to the next level.

He failed to acknowledge the pain of others he has undoubtedly caused. Yes he is hurting but so are others because of him

Yeah the last 2 posts with him really distraught crying and telling people to stop messaging him vile stuff, saying what do you want from me, blood? etc have been taken down.

I don't believe he works in Mental Health and if he does he should lose his job. I think what is on that instagram thing is the tip of the iceberg.

I’ve just realised who Whitney is. DH knows her family very well but we are older, so he knew her mum and knows her family members that age and above. Someone upthread made a comment about her accent/St Albans, she’s a local, not someone who moved in because it’s now considered ‘posh’.

Thomas has updated his IG now claiming the Podcast was about dark comedy, and how awful it is that he’s had nasty messages.

Im just sorry a God like Adrian had to tolerate this arsehole for so long.

Jess has made an interesting claim too, she’s said (before the podcast debacle) that Thomas bullied her daily on the show. Then spread rumours that she slept with a cast member who wasn’t PJ. I can well believe he did that.

I have lots of friends from At Albans and none of them speak like she does.😂

Can anyone help, I'm just back from holidays and catching up on the last two episodes....
The final dinner party and then the final session with experts. I thought Matt wasn't on the last episode? So wondering if there is a last, LAST episode I'm missing somewhere?