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How to Lose Friends and Alienate People by the awful Toby Young who spent 5 years at US Vanity Fair. It's 20 years old now but useful if you want a glimpse of their magazine culture. All liggers welcome as long as they can dress and maybe have access to a supply of Class As. It's not Intellect Central.
Yes, it is an excellent insight into the New York social stratum that Anna, Rachel and Neff wanted to elbow their way into, by different methods of course.
The Fyre festival documentary is another one. The Netflix adaptation cheekily suggests that Anna was a lodger of Billy McFarland (the chancer who set up the Fyre festival and is now in prison for fraud). Or the Netflix doc about We Work. Or even the old Sex and the City episodes.
What all of those books and films have in common (and Toby Young’s book is MILES better than the film adaptation, whatever you think of him) is the depiction of people desperate to mix with the rich successful members of New York society, and ready to do anything to join them.
In the Fyre festival doc, which I recommend, you see McFarland, who is a bit of a pudding frankly, setting up a credit card business that came with access to what people saw as exclusive social events. It was a success with a certain type of young-ish aspirational New York resident. He then conceives the idea for the Fyre festival and pays supermodels to post about it on Instagram. He makes a promo video of him and his associates frolicking in the surf with beautiful girls they wouldn’t have a chance with in real life, or riding on jet skis. His festival sold out in a few days, at $2,500 minimum per ticket plus extras, because the people he was marketing it at were daft enough to think, “yes, that’s what the cool successful people are doing so I’d better do it too”. Some of the male attendees are interviewed in the doc: they genuinely thought that they were going for a luxurious stay with the coolest, richest people in the world and would be jumping off private yachts with Bella Hadid and Kendall Jenner. So credulous.
It’s not that different to what Anna did. Of course she is a chancer and a terrible person but she’s pursuing the same ‘fake it til you make it’ strategy. It succeeds because a certain type of person (Rachel, the Fyre festival marks, the women conned by the Tinder Swindler) is so desperate to be part of something cool, or to join a particular social group, or to be close to money in case some of it comes their way in the form of a job or a rich spouse, that they will pretty much believe anything.