I hate the fact that the shy, soldier guy, is expected to step up and be more outgoing, just to suit his wife. What's wrong with being quiet? Nothing!
Exactly. Some people are quiet. They find it difficult to verbalise their feelings - it doesn't mean they aren't experiencing them deeply.
It annoys me when the "experts" push and push at Big Andrew and Simon - both of whom are quiet, private people - and force them to articulate feelings which are very personal. Simon was in tears at one point and they were goading him with "Would you have liked your dad to have met Alene?" and similar intrusive remarks. Of course the poor lad was going to be upset - and it served no purpose other than "good" tv. It was cruel.
I agree re: who's Done It 
Sean and Susan
Nick and Sharon
"Muscle Head" (LOL) and Scarlett (I thought she came prepared for a sexy honeymoon when she appeared in her little silky PJ set. All of the other girls were in shorts and tee-shirts/androgynous, non-inviting nightwear) I did feel a bit sorry for Scarlett. She was very immature and expected some sort of fairytale, but MuscleHead was one of the controlling types who only wanted what he wanted and treated her like rubbish. I don't think she ought to have been on the show.
I think that if Debbie had been paired with her fantasy Polynesian stallion, she would have out-sh*gged the lot of them!
I think that both Big Andrew and Simon want a relationship and not just sex, and are prepared to let things go at their own pace. I think Sean was the same - he just struck lucky that he and Susan were besotted with each other from the beginning. Jesse would like both sex and a relationship, but is prepared to let Michelle set the pace.
Psycho Anthony and Fireman Andrew are really pee'd-off that the women they are paired with don't want sex with them. They regard it as an insult to their masculinity, and they also want to have that degree of control. It annoys them that they can't manipulate Cheryl or Nadia - if they could sexually sublimate them that would be a huge "triumph for these guys.
A PP said that Fireman Andrew claims to have PTSD after the show - I don't believe him. It's attention-seeking behaviour so he can use the "poor me I'm so sensitive" card in the future. At the last dinner party he was an absolute bar steward and totally disloyal to Cheryl just to get the attention and sympathy. What a rat!
I've never watched this sort of show before - and I can't believe how it has lured me in and held my attention. I don't like most of the people. but am so worried about the ones I do like that I watch so that I can send advice via the ether, through time and space (this is from 2017) telling them "Nooooo" etc.
I like to think I have helped a little.