I totally get Lucie crying. When I was younger and people were having a go at me personally, I didnt have the confidence to say "ok, you dont like how I act. Tough shit".
I also really struggled to stand up for myself. It made me feel frustrated and I would cry out of frustration. Not to play the victim. It's an awful feeling knowing people are talking about you, criticising you to your face and feeling totally stuck about doing anything about it.
When someone is telling you, you shouldnt do something that's normal for you (being friends with men) and you arent good at standing up for yourself and you are confused and cant Express yourself. Again tears of frustration can happen. Not about playing the victim or going over the top.
Amy is definitely bullying Lucie. That showed when one of the first cinverstations she had with Elma was about Lucie and her not mixing with them much. You can talk about editing all you want but that converstation happened the night Elma and Maura went in. There was no need to get straight in and talk tell her about that, pretty much straight away.
If Amy was really just thinking Lucie would be happier spending more time with the girls and finding some female friends, she would have not mentioned it. Let the new girls make up their own mind and hope Lucie got on with them. But she didnt she got in there with that converstation first.
I also dont think whispering is rude. It's usually labelled rude by people who think they have a right to listen into peoples converstation. Not everyone wants everyone else to hear what they are saying. If Tommy had come over and said 'Lucie let's go for a chat', the girls would have been saying 'see she sits with us and fucks off with a boy the second one wants to speak to her' or implied Tommy wanted to chat to her about picking her.
The look on Amy's face, again could be a bit of editing, but the look was on her face when Lucie walked past her to Joe and hugged him. So it wasnt a look from a different point and then edited into look like it was a reaction about Lucie. It was a reaction to that.
At some point the producers are going to have to do something about Amy (and possibly Amber) and Joe. Lucie having to walk to get out of the situation will receive a massive backlash. The producers will not have missed that lots of people are concerned about Joe's behaviour and Amy's.