But Simon moving to same town and effectively stalking her is ok. Misogyny on this thread is so depressing.
I know it is making me so angry.
Re watch the older episodes. Last episode of season 1, Gemma wakes up in bed alone, signs her divorce papers, pays a visit to work where they encourage her to come back, has a coffee in the square with her son and she holds her head high and barely acknowledges Kate and Simon as they drive off.
First episode of season 2, Tom and Gemma having a jokey text exchange about what coffee she wants him to bring home, she has risen to head of the GP practice, Tom is content and has Isabelle and Max over after school. No suggestion at the end of series one or beginning of series 2 that they are unhappy or that Simon has even crossed their minds in any way. They have left well alone and whilst Gemma may still be hurt, she has made no attempt to contact Simon and doesn't want him back.
As soon as Simon shows up with a clear intent to drive Gemma out of town in a month, starting his mess again, both Gemma and Tom's lives fall apart and Kate is desperately unhappy too. Simon makes a spectacle of himself, deliberately wants to sabotage Neil's marriage, sends estate agents round to the house, etc etc. And somehow all of this is Gemma's fault?!
It is unbelievable in this day and age how women still naturally blame the woman as unhinged.