"I started to cry when Leo said "it's just sex, they've had sex before' - a very unnuanced way of how so many people view rape. Chilling"
I've posted on a few threads on here discussing rape. Several posters refuse to believe that rapists don't understand its rape not sex, the Broadchurch writers consulted rape charities and I believe spoke to other experts in the area.
Here was a very clear case of a violent rape and the main instigator does not see it as rape but as sex. Does not see the harm does not see why the victims are traumatised.
I know this is a thread about a fictional crime but it's a crime that happens daily in real life.
We HAVE to change the narrative, the belief that any sexual assault up to and including rape has anything to do with sex/attraction.
It's about power, control, exerting male authority.
We also HAVE to STOP blaming victims.
12 year olds that claim to be 16 to impress their mates.
Uni students that get drunk.
Wives/partners in controlling relationships.
Girls or women wearing revealing clothing.
Girls or women walking alone at night/in secluded areas.
Girls or women getting into a dodgy taxi.
Girls or women using public transport after dark.
NOT TO BLAME.
Put the blame where it belongs - on the perpetrators.