Yes all sorts was done to women here for daring to have emotions or sexual desire.
Fgm is still done in some areas to white women though it is rare but I think some areas of rural Russia with very orthodox views will do it to girls.
All the women I have come into contact with fgm say that they do not want it for their own children. However, the safeguarding risk to girls comes from the community too and the extended family. Mothers and mothers in law come to visit to help care for the mother and baby after birth. Families go to their home country in the long summer holidays. It is not uncommon at all for girls to be cut by aunts or grandmothers against the wishes of their mother. But slowly slowly things are changing.
I saw a presentation by a group who travel around educating communities about fgm and trying to change attitudes here in the uk. The founder was a man. He had no clue about fgm when he married, his wife was the first and only vulva he had seen so he didn't know it wasn't supposed to look like that and of course it isn't something spoken about to men. It wasn't until she was in labour and of course the dr had to be involved that he realised. The way he spoke was so moving, he was aghast because right at that moment his wife and his baby were at risk so the knowledge of fgm came to him along with very real awareness of long term risks. It was strange because they do a play/dance thing about fgm which is supposed to be their presentation but tbh I didn't really get that but the q&a after where he spoke about how he began his journey to speaking out against fgm was very hard hitting.
I'm not normally a fan of men taking action against things that are predominantly women's health issues but I think in the case of fgm there needs to be partnership so that men make it known that they want their wives and daughters to be uncut and deconstruct the myth that only cut women will find husbands.