yep! well its all done in secret anyway.
Sorry if it was said be fore I joined but I couldnt believe the one women who said if you are obediant, with ref to sex, you will be rewarded by Allah
Im scared to say for fear of being told im being 'ist of some sort but I am right to say these women live in an overtly patriarchical family/culture and dont seem to have the rights and freedom other have. It seem built in.