That's a good idea Beyond, and another vote of thanks and appreciation of the recent posts of Nightowl and EM2003, particularly, as well as another voice in agreement here of an MN guide; something POSITIVE to come out of all this.
With respect to a guide, I would add there seems to be three clear areas that could be looked at in terms of whether a reader might be at the beginning, middle or end of CP process (and what to do next if not happy with the way things went, regardless of outcome).
If there's anything I can do, I'd be happy to help, even though I too have to to dip in and out a bit. This topic is too hard sometimes, and so easy for mis-communication and misunderstanding amidst complete and utter bonkersness.
For example, I spent ages drafting responses to earlier posts, with an apology to Kewcumber and MaryZ if my questions had led them or other adopters to feel attacked in anyway, and a LONG explanation of my reasoning and intent, which was based on experience and not the contribution of adopters on these threads; however the thread moved on so much and so quickly, it didn't all seem appropriate any longer and I've not yet been time sufficiently able, or perhaps brave enough, to rejig and post again, but I would like the sentiment and apology to be there none the less.