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Educating Yorkshire C4 9pm

628 replies

DameEdnasBridesmaid · 05/09/2013 20:28

Am looking forward to this, RL Waterloo Rd?

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coffeewineandchocolate · 19/09/2013 21:28

Def thinking ADHD on relation to Robbie-jo

DameEdnasBridesmaid · 19/09/2013 21:29

Some students prefer to be at school than at home

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YoureBeingADick · 19/09/2013 21:29

one of my clients is called uren. based on her first name (my client's) I think it's Austrian/german maybe (think sound of music Wink)

bananananacoconuts · 19/09/2013 21:29

I'm 2 minutes behind. Poor, poor Tom.

paperclipsarebetterthanstaples · 19/09/2013 21:31

Some students prefer the normality of school when something awful happens at home. One of mine lost his Dad in the middle of the night. He was in class at 9am... he felt in the way at home and needed the support of his peers.

YoureBeingADick · 19/09/2013 21:32

what is that teacher doing asking tom to recount his brother's death?? Shock

DameEdnasBridesmaid · 19/09/2013 21:33

Agree paperclips but some prefer school to the dire home life they have. I worked in FE and we have students with 100% attendance and who come in on their days off because college is where they feel safe. So sad

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bananananacoconuts · 19/09/2013 21:34

Is she the anger management teacher?

Nerfmother · 19/09/2013 21:37

It's an episode in his life that's finished. What a knobber. Dd is here going why donut hate the head so much?

YoureBeingADick · 19/09/2013 21:39

no she is head of year 7. anger counsellor is younger with long hair.

dame that is realy sad. poor kids. Sad

paperclipsarebetterthanstaples · 19/09/2013 21:41

I'm in FE too Dame. It's very sad - same kids in breakfast club, staying for computer club etc so they don't have to go home...

ggirl · 19/09/2013 21:42

I would be a such a shit shouty screamy teacher and have absolutely no patience with those 2 boys

Sparklingbrook · 19/09/2013 21:43

I want to give Robbie a big hug.

Helpyourself · 19/09/2013 21:43

Was it the anger management teacher?
That was appalling questioning. Shock

ggirl · 19/09/2013 21:46

was just thinking the same as head of year

YoureBeingADick · 19/09/2013 21:47

I do agree aswell GGirl- he very obviously played the 'he's the only one who understands me' card to get outside and then just went anyway.

DigestivesAndPhiladelphia · 19/09/2013 21:47

Why is the head pandering so much to one boy, when it is at the expense of the other pupils & his staff? He's grieving but he still needs boundaries,surely?

ggirl · 19/09/2013 21:49

Sorry but Tom loves all the attention

bananananacoconuts · 19/09/2013 21:50

Help yourself. Why was it an appalling question? Apologies if you did not read it the way it was intended but i asked was it the anger management teacher in response to another poster saying that she couldn't believe a teacher was asking a child to recount his step brothers death.

Is it now an appalling question? Please do tell me why if it is.

WetAugust · 19/09/2013 21:51

Couldn't they have called in the Educational Psychologist to advise? Or put Tom in touch with a young person's bereavement councillor?

School seemed very keen to keep this 'in school' when outside agencies could probably have provided better support.

YoureBeingADick · 19/09/2013 21:52

I think she meant the teacher was asking an appalling question. not you bananas Smile

JazzAnnNonMouse · 19/09/2013 21:52

Poor boy
however,I can see what the head of year is saying. When my friend died (we were around the same age as Tom) many in our year used it as an excuse to bunk off.
Even those closer to her over egged it iyswim - it does give a certain 'free pass' to do what you want because everyone's so desperate not to offend/upset anyone. It's a hard time to loose someone because you're not entirely in control of showing your emotional reactions either.
Difficult situation for the teachers.

Nerfmother · 19/09/2013 21:52

Compassionate leave? Unofficial exclusion actually sir

racmun · 19/09/2013 21:53

I feel sorry for those 2 boys who clearly have issues but also the rest of the children in their classes. How much time do the teachers spend just trying to get them to behave before they even start teaching the others.

Can't help thinking that they both like the attention

YoureBeingADick · 19/09/2013 21:53

wetaugust- he could well be in contact with outside agencies but the school/CH4 don't have permission to disclose that information?