Thankyou all, I'm ok really. Yes 5inthebed, two girls, thankyou for remembering. 
TwoImmatureTurtleDoves I am sorry for the loss of your daughter.
The parents of the triplets have four older children I think. It did make me smile when the older girl got all squeamish about breastfeeding. I was quite pleased when my 16 year old DS was suprised to hear there was another way (apart from breastfeeding) of feeding a baby, although I FF my first 3 DC from quite young.