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anyone online....am sobbing. DD1 wnet to pics with friends, they plied her with alcohol, and the police found her slumped on the beach alone, with no shoes or cardie, compley drunk, and bag stolen

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psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:14

containing her purse, mobile and new ipod touch that I bought her with my car accident money.

she is not rousable and shaking or vomiting.

help please

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Buda · 24/05/2009 13:50

Hopefully it will have frightened all of them psycho.

ellingwoman · 24/05/2009 13:56

Glad she's ok.

On the valuables front - is it not worth a walk along the beach, maybe with a metal detector, to see if you can find anything?

BreevandercampLGJ · 24/05/2009 14:21

Actually I would not allow her to lie on the couch, I would make her work through her hangover.

Do you have any cupboards that need cleaning out, or a gebil or rabbit hutch that needs attention. ??

So sorrry you had to deal with this Psycho.

cheesesarnie · 24/05/2009 14:35

blimey psycho!!poor you,what a worry it must have been!
glad shes all ok and safe.
im dreading mine becoming teens!

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 18:59

hello all...........a much calmer me now

she is still 'dying'. she is claiming to never ever ever touch alcohol again, and she hates me for allowing 12 children come for a party.

I have just had the most calmest party ever tho, considering it was a 9yr old boys football party. I think all the hell from last night has made today seem very simple. I have not gotten stresses or wound up at all..........silver cloud lining here

now sat down with a glass of wine, megs is looking like hell at me, but she is home safe.........all my family is safe tonight, and the day has turned out lovely after the hidious start.

my new neighbour has been fab. she helped last night at the beginning of the nightmare, then came over to see how things fared during the night, got cross that I didn;t knock for help for the A&E issue and told me never ever to not call on her if needed (altho am desperately hoping we are never in this situation agaon!)!

her two girls plus step daughters have been here for the party, and she has now got all my small ones in hers as they went and bought a trampoline while the party was going on. life is back to normal

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cornsilk · 24/05/2009 19:00

Good news!

PurplePillow · 24/05/2009 19:08

So glad everything turned out ok in the end

Wish ds1 a great birthday from us up here(better late than never)

TrillianAstra · 24/05/2009 19:11

I am so glad everything is okay, got really worried when I saw the first post and have been speed-reading to find out what happened.

I think you've dealt with this really well, the pain and the fear and seeing how worried you were is nearly punishment enough. I hope she remembers and understands how her actions have consequences on everyone else as well as her. I am on the side of being shocked that she and her friends got separated somehow, but if they have been friends for so long then hopefully they will be much more aware of checking up on each other when (in many many years time) they consider trying alcohol again.

And well done surviving your first teen alcohol incident

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 19:16

yes, I have indeed survived trillian. mind you, was really not expecting to have to (lived in hoped).

cornsilk, good news indeed

purple, tis still his birhtday until bedtime, so not too late at all

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PurplePillow · 24/05/2009 19:18

Just to let you know.......

DD is counting the days until you all arrive

She cannot wait to meet her twin

TrillianAstra · 24/05/2009 19:19

Yes and happy birthday to DS1!

TrinityIsLovingHerLittleRhino · 24/05/2009 19:21

so glad everything has turned out ok and you are feeling calmer now

onto important things

what else are you allergis to cause I do not want to make purple stab you

TrinityIsLovingHerLittleRhino · 24/05/2009 19:22

oops and happy birthday ds1

PurplePillow · 24/05/2009 19:23

Don't say that Trinity or she might not come

But will add if you do need stabbed Psycho I will do it for you

TrinityIsLovingHerLittleRhino · 24/05/2009 19:25

roffle purple
well I figure that if I poison her (accidently I might add0 that she would rather BE stabbed than not

but I really dont want to have to do it

could get dh to I guess

mollyroger · 24/05/2009 19:26

Holy Moley, just seen this thread.
Glad everything is ok Psycho now,
what a night!
Some of us are mentally storing away this thread for a couple of years' time...

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 19:33

molly, I am going to copy and paste this thread for when one of my others try it (altho they are all now grounded until they leave home now anyway, so it won;t happen.............will it??).

seriously, my heart has been thru the ringer today, but I have spoken to lots of friends today, plus MIL, and the taling about it has helped, as have all you lovely lot.

I haven;t exploded too much anyway.

right then, on to 'normal things'.......trinity. am allergic to......

milk
tree fruits
filter coffee
black bean sauce
wine with sulphites (altho I 'only' go red and wheezy. no need to stab me if I do have some)
cats, dogs and rabbits (but my antihistamines help lots with that. cats are worse for me than dogs tho...I grew up with dogs so I think my body copes better).
tree and grass pollen
house dust mite (altho my house is very dusty and I am not dead yet)

also allergic to lots of medications, but as long as you are not planning on testing medications on me, I think I can safely assume I am ok on that score.

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motherpi · 24/05/2009 19:34

Oh Psycho what a horrific 24 hours - I am amazed that you dealt with it so marvellously without hitting the wine way before now.

pointydog · 24/05/2009 19:35

missed this, psycho. What a worry. Glad it's turned out ok.

TrinityIsLovingHerLittleRhino · 24/05/2009 19:36

shite how do I know if wine has sulphites in
red and wheezy does not sound good

shit, my house is dusty

filter coffe is that expensive stuff innit?
no fear of finding that here

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 19:38

thankyou both

motherpi, wine would have been hit earlier I think had I not had a party to sort out!

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Flame · 24/05/2009 19:39

by red and wheezy she means she gets a rash that maker her look like she has a red goatee

TrinityIsLovingHerLittleRhino · 24/05/2009 19:40

roffle flame

are you coming too?

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 19:40

tells you on the back, but have no fear, I am quite good at finding the right wine

dusty......please stop panicking. I will be fine, I am well practised in living with some dust. oh, and believe me, the extension causing much dust, and I am still breathing. my body will be able to ignore normal dust by the time I come

coffee, instant is perfect for me

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psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 19:42

flame, that was supposed to be a secret. they might now realise the truth about me think I am actually a hairy trucker!

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