DD has been in her room all summer holiday. What do I do?

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My DD has not left her room the entire summer holiday. She is a teenager and has only come out to use the bathroom and things of that sort but apart from that she won’t come out. I’m starting to get worried as she doesn’t seem to be interested in her friends or her family. I’ve said to her I’ll take her on a day out somewhere but she has just screamed at me to get out. DS seems to be fine and goes out with his friends almost everyday but DD refuses to.
anyone going through something similar or have any ideas on what to do?

I’m done at Englishire 😂 as someone from Wales who has the same holidays as Englishire I promise I’m not this ignorant to the holidays starting earlier in Scotland and Ireland.

What do you mean entire summer holidays, only started like 3 days ago!

FFS read the thread! They are in Scotland therefore it's nearly back to school

Maybe if the Op mentioned that in her post that may have helped!

Do you not live in the UK yourself? You don't seem to know about UK school holidays.

They did. In first page, about 5 comments down!

Well it’s all of the summer holiday so far - which is a substantial amount.

Most people know that summer holidays are not the same in every country

For many it has been at least three weeks and we are on countdown to school returning...

I'm in the UK but my kids didn't break up for summer until the 23rd July. Apologies forgot about Scotland having different hols

We only have a week and a bit left 😭

When you say screaming at you to you mean just replying from another room or actually screaming? Exaggeration of people's responses can misrepresent the situation and how severe the issue or non-issue really is. Have you tried just asking her why she's not coming out?