She's gone to school this morning. For now . Until she pisses off the male teacher in the IER (internal exclusion room).
I've also found out that when she got excluded the first time, for apparently swearing at this teacher in the IER, she DIDN'T swear at him - she calmly told him that she found him annoying, and he took offence to that?! Maybe she DID find him annoying? (Though she should have bleeding THOUGHT it rather than said it, but she has no filter for that!!)
She DID swear at the deputy HT though, the second time she got excluded. But the woman IS...I can't think of a word to describe her, but she speaks in 'corporate-speak', and thinks that crying because you are upset is 'aggressive', so I can see why DD has a problem with her I do too, I think she's horrible, but I know better than to say that or swear at her...
Tbh, I have my serious suspicions about all these exclusions so close to the exams.
Originally, in Y9, I had to fight HARD to get DD to be ALLOWED to do traditional GCSE's, as it was her only route into Catering at College, as the school offered NO vocational qualifications in anything that would get DD into College to do Catering (mechanics, hair and beauty and Childcare only). DD only NEEDS D-G grades to get on the course, and I knew she was capable of at least E-G's in everything.
Now, since September, the school has become an Academy. DD's year group will produce the FIRST league table results for the school as an Academy...
DD will not achieve a C grade or above in ANY subject. But she doesn't NEED to.
HOWEVER...the SCHOOL needs as many pupils as possible that are doing traditional GCSE's to get A* - C grades, for their league table results.
As DD won't achieve this, what better way to prevent DD's D-G results from appearing on their league tables than to keep excluding her until the end of the school year, so that she isn't eligible to sit in the exam hall and take the exams, because then she isn't counted in their oh-so-important league table results as not getting ANY A* - C grades...
And as NONE of their exclusions top 5 days, I will have no comeback even WITH a letter to the Board of Governors (which I have written already because the minute they exclude her again, it will be over 5 days, taken advice in what I CAN do...), the Board of Governors get FIFTY days to respond. By which point, the school year will be finished. Which is why they are doing this to DD now.
There are other pupils who act out far worse than DD that DON'T get excluded or put in IER for far worse than DD is currently getting excluded / internally excluded for...but they are doing vocational qualifications so it doesn't affect their league table results so badly.
And that, my friends, is the harsh reality of having a DC with SEN / SN's in a mainstream school that becomes an Academy just as your DC goes into Y11...