While having a sort out i found a carrier bag stuffed in the back of a drawer in ds room my heart sunk when i opened it i actually felt sick it was full of my dd old clothes including underwear but also some items that did not belong to dd.I dont know how to handle this i was going to ask dd if she knew anything but dont feel that would be fair at this stage, i probably should throw them away and hope he grows out of it but i dont want to hurt him or stop him coming to me if he needs to talk it is a great shock and really hard to know what to do.I try to be openminded and try to see things from all angles but to be honest i cant seem to think straight.
I need to talk to him but how do i bring it up and should i let him carry on or tell him he must stop i worry about other people knowing and the reactions he will get.
Anyone else been through this any advice please.