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Are these too manly?

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Batsratscatsgnats · Yesterday 18:13

Honestly do you see Man's shoes here? I always considered docs as unisex but ASOS are absolutely marketing these as mens.
I really want a pair of brown dm shoes to wear with jeans / smart trousers etc. Could these work?

Sorry about the weird formatting. Writing this on my phone and not sure what happened there

Are these too manly?
Are these too manly?
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Makebelieveanotherlife · Yesterday 18:28

Yes they definitely look like men’s shoes. Would look quite manly and obvious on a woman.

Specialagentblond · Yesterday 18:29

I thinks it’s the faded
brown. Perhaps a patent brown or a suede?

Bogstandardname · Yesterday 18:30

Yep. They are mens shoes and that is exactly what they look like.

Purplecatshopaholic · Yesterday 18:33

If you like the styling, does it matter? If they come in your size then maybe try them and see?

hellospring26 · Yesterday 18:36

They have women’s and unisex three eye brown shoes on their website. Same as these.

IMTHECRAZYOLDLADY · Yesterday 18:42

My daughter wears doc marten shoes like those, her pair are black. If you have wide feet (like me, as in not narrow) they’ll be fine.

YouRemindMeOfAYoungerMe · Yesterday 19:19

I’ve got these… I wear them with socks and skirts, dresses, shorts, trousers… I think they look good - and I’ve never been mistaken for a man. They are SO comfortable! Size 6, so neither small nor massive.

Are these too manly?
backformoreofthesame · Yesterday 19:21

If yo like then wear them and screw the stereotypes

diddledoodum · Yesterday 19:27

I have a pair very similar! I think they are quite a masculine style but that really doesn’t matter. I don’t suddenly get an urge to wear men’s clothes when I put them on!

Imicola · Yesterday 19:28

I wouldn't hesitate to wear them myself and wouldn't bat an eyelid at a woman wearing them. Very smart!

ItsAlwaysTwins · Yesterday 19:34

They are masculine in style but there’s nothing wrong with that.

Blarn · Yesterday 19:43

Agree with PPs: unisex, leaning towards masculine. I think it is the brown - no idea this has made such a difference! But I like that look and if Dr Martens didnt hate my feet I'd wear those. I would never look at a woman wearing them and gasp in horror: "but she's wearing mens shoes!"

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 19:45

No such thing as "too manly". The only question is do you like them and how they look on your feet. What I would say is men's shoes can be quite a bit wider and may not fit as well.

MyManinCaracas · Yesterday 19:47

I had these in 1985 as a 17 year old girl. I loved the look but hated how heavy and stiff they were.

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 19:48

And DD2 frequently wears men's shoes, as she has size 9.5 feet.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · Yesterday 19:48

They’re a great pair of shoes for anyone. If you like them, get them.

dudsville · Yesterday 19:49

I've got the crazy horse ones @YouRemindMeOfAYoungerMe linked to. It's a very useful shoe! They aren't feminine, but I wear them with feminine things. I think they magke a good alternative to a pretty dress with dainty shoes, which wouldn't be my vibe.

dudsville · Yesterday 19:52

But I do have the ones for women. V import with DMs, like with birkenstocks, as they market themselves as neutral, but they do have bigger and smaller fits.

Batsratscatsgnats · Yesterday 19:54

dudsville · Yesterday 19:52

But I do have the ones for women. V import with DMs, like with birkenstocks, as they market themselves as neutral, but they do have bigger and smaller fits.

Thats interesting. So maybe they wouldn't work even if i like them.then? I specifically want btown and im struggling to find some for "women"

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dudsville · Yesterday 19:58

Batsratscatsgnats · Yesterday 19:54

Thats interesting. So maybe they wouldn't work even if i like them.then? I specifically want btown and im struggling to find some for "women"

I got mine on the DM website but I had to wait until they'd restocked the women's sizes. The clue to look out for on their website is the size range. If it goes all the way up through the men's sizes then it's the wider fit. If it only goes up to 42-ish, then it's the women's sizing.

changedusername190 · Yesterday 20:01

If they are marketed as men’s you would probably find they are too wide across the heel .I tried on something similar despite the size being ok my foot was slipping around especially at the heel.

dudsville · Yesterday 20:04

Uploading pics so you can see what I mean @Batsratscatsgnats ,the pics will take a while to load, and they're UK rather than European sizing. One is for women, the other is neutral, meaning the wider fit.

Are these too manly?
Are these too manly?
BreezyClouds · Yesterday 20:09

I'd have no issue with those, utilitarian looking, unisex. But, if cut for men they may be too wide for your feet?

Plenty of plain brown leather DM style boots cut for women.

AllHoityToity · Yesterday 20:25

My sister has brown DM shoes and they must be women’s because she is a size 4.

Dracolina · Yesterday 21:22

Batsratscatsgnats · Yesterday 18:13

Honestly do you see Man's shoes here? I always considered docs as unisex but ASOS are absolutely marketing these as mens.
I really want a pair of brown dm shoes to wear with jeans / smart trousers etc. Could these work?

Sorry about the weird formatting. Writing this on my phone and not sure what happened there

They are 100% men's shoes.

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