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What perfume are we wearing in our 40s?

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NowIsTheWinterOfOurDiscontent · Yesterday 19:18

Hello

I am loyal to Jo Malone Lime Basil & Mandarin for summer.

For winter, I've used Coco Chanel but wonder if it's a bit too heavy/80s.

I've also used Coco Mademoiselle and Miss Dior and like them but wonder if they're a bit young for me now.

I HATE AND LOATHE CHANEL NO5!

I would like something clean and sophisticated rather than too young/old or sexy.

Any thoughts welcome! Thanks.

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hardshoulderr · Today 09:14

Also, if you ever have any money, go to liberty and go downstairs to the perfume concierge. The person there will talk to you about what kind of smells you like and then guide you to the different counters where, for no charge, you can sample all the perfumes you like. I did it and it's brilliant.

Hertinot · Today 09:22

Because I live in the middle of nowhere and there are no perfume counters to try anything new, I tell chat gpt what I like, or what I liked back in the day, then I ask it to find me a modern equivalent on Perfume Parlour. I then order loads of the sample bottles so I can try different ones. @bittertwisted yes I think they do have that, I just had a quick check for you.

ElizaSchuyler · Today 10:52

I'm in my early 50s rather than my 40s but I alternate between Miss Dior, Black Opium and La Vie est Belle. I thught about getting Valaya or Delina Exclusif but I think I prefer Black Opium (although I wish it lasted longer) and La Vie est Belle.

I had a sample of Portrait of a Lady and did not like it at all. I also recently tried Donna Born in Roma (original) which I liked.

NowIsTheWinterOfOurDiscontent · Today 11:09

hardshoulderr · Today 09:14

Oh, you will need to abandon JM because it's bought out by Estee Lauder and go to Jo loves which is far better and actually made by Jo herself.
or the supercheap and brilliant Zara versions

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I have wondered about this! Which Jo Loves would I like?

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BeardofHagrid · Today 11:20

I can’t wear one, it gives me a migraine :( wish I could though.

hardshoulderr · Today 14:08

Hertinot · Today 09:22

Because I live in the middle of nowhere and there are no perfume counters to try anything new, I tell chat gpt what I like, or what I liked back in the day, then I ask it to find me a modern equivalent on Perfume Parlour. I then order loads of the sample bottles so I can try different ones. @bittertwisted yes I think they do have that, I just had a quick check for you.

But you never ever go to a big city? Wow

hardshoulderr · Today 14:08

@NowIsTheWinterOfOurDiscontent I can't wait to decide for you, but they do a selection box thing

What perfume are we wearing in our 40s?
hardshoulderr · Today 14:31

Can't really *

NowIsTheWinterOfOurDiscontent · Today 14:38

@hardshoulderr oh great idea, thanks! Yah I love these "discovery" sets. Like a selection box or a variety pack!

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Hertinot · Today 14:48

@hardshoulderr my nearest city is a plane ride away, thinking about it there are a few shops in our local little town that have perfumes but not a big selection, we have a small boots and a super drug. I maybe get to a city less than once a year and then I'm more focused on getting to food places 😆

Specialneedsnightmare · Today 14:51

I love Burberry.

I'm late 40s.

Thecows · Today 16:48

hardshoulderr · Today 14:08

But you never ever go to a big city? Wow

Bit condescending surely? I rarely go to big cities either, the samples selection sounds like a great idea from the pp.

hardshoulderr · Today 18:17

Yeah, sorry it read like that. It was meant to sound like shock not disapproval.

purpleme12 · Today 18:18

I'm wearing Yardley lavender at the minute. But I swip and swap perfumes. This was a present from my daughter ❤️

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