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What perfume are we wearing in our 40s?

89 replies

NowIsTheWinterOfOurDiscontent · 25/08/2026 19:18

Hello

I am loyal to Jo Malone Lime Basil & Mandarin for summer.

For winter, I've used Coco Chanel but wonder if it's a bit too heavy/80s.

I've also used Coco Mademoiselle and Miss Dior and like them but wonder if they're a bit young for me now.

I HATE AND LOATHE CHANEL NO5!

I would like something clean and sophisticated rather than too young/old or sexy.

Any thoughts welcome! Thanks.

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MyManinCaracas · 25/08/2026 19:43

I’m a big fan of Halfeti by Penhaligons. There are also some great boutique perfumeries in London like 4260 Tuesdays.

MyManinCaracas · 25/08/2026 19:44

Sorry, 4160 Tuesdays

user593 · 25/08/2026 19:54

I’m early 40s. These are my favourite at the moment for autumn/ winter. I also wear Jo Malone Lime Basil & Mandarin in the summer.

Diptyque Do Son
Diptyque Orphèon
Ex Nihilo Lust in Paradise
Frederic Malle Carnal Flower
Jo Malone Cypress & Grapevine

Advocodo · 25/08/2026 19:57

White tea by Elizabeth arden

Jemimapuddleduk · 25/08/2026 19:59

My favourites are
Dior’s j’adore lor, J’adore intense
the new rose interpretation of shalimar and cocoa rose by Aerin.

spiritowl · 25/08/2026 20:34

I like Coco Mademoiselle and Dior J’Adore, and a current favourite is Coach, The Fragrance Eau de Parfum.

LoafofSellotape · 25/08/2026 20:38

JM seasalt and wood sage

Inis

Burberry weekend

D and G Light Blue

Diptique - can't remember what it's called,it's solid on a tin.

patooties · 25/08/2026 20:40

tonka and myrhh (JM)
Clinique aromatics
santal 33

Debbie196 · 25/08/2026 20:40

I like the same perfumes as you. I was gifted Penhaligon’s Blenheim Bouquet and love it. I haven’t tried Halfeti yet. They usually do sample sets .

mdinbc · 25/08/2026 20:44

Wear what you love and never mind age. My Aunt wore Miss Dior all her life, it was her signature scent.

Avocodo - I also wear White Tea, sometimes Green Tea by EA.

madaboutpurple · 25/08/2026 20:46

My favourite is Angel. I have loved it for years. Luckily I got a big bottle in a sale.

TheGriffle · 25/08/2026 20:49

I’m 40 and am currently obsessed with Marc Jacobs Daisy.

CheapFoodShits · 25/08/2026 20:54

Portrait of a Lady by Frederic Malle consistently gets me compliments.

A summer favourite of mine is Jo Loves Mango Thai Lime.

mtobrokeme · 25/08/2026 21:00

I alternate daily between Maison Margiela Bubble Bath and Penhaligons Empressa!

mumof5five · 25/08/2026 21:01

BDK Impadia

Rhubarbsoap · 25/08/2026 21:03

Gucci Floral. The Pink one

Wiltedgeranium · 25/08/2026 21:06

Nothing stays on me.
I love Hugo red for nights out.
Miss dior or mugler nova or ck euphoria for day.

I want to be one of those people whose scent lingers. But I'm not.

NervousSheepy · 25/08/2026 21:10

I like the Prada infusions range, especially fleur d'oranger.

FairViewRosie25 · 25/08/2026 21:11

I’m 61 but I’ve just discovered Aventus by Creed it is gorgeous but £££
always loved Vetiver by Creed ex boyfriend wore this

MiceSpiders · 25/08/2026 21:12

J'adore Dior infinissime for winter, this year Gucci flora (the pink one) for summer, I also love Jo Malone peony and blush suede that's my go to day to day, and l'artisan parfumeur Memoire des Roses, I do like a floral and not really into citrus.

Currently coveting Jo Malone velvet rose and oud and Tom Ford Santal blush but I've got to stop spending money on perfume....

SharkPants · 25/08/2026 21:12

I love Bronze Goddess range by Estee Lauder. Also have the Blanc Soliel by Tom Ford. So summery.

Can anyone recommend any good autumn fragrances please?

impostacosta · 25/08/2026 21:18

I love in no order:

Coco Mademoiselle

Juliette has a Gun, Ode to dullness

Hermes Eau de Merveilles

Boss The Scent

Coco Noir

Maison Margela Jazz Club

Chance Eau Fraiche

Dior Addict

EgregiouslyOverdressed · 25/08/2026 21:19

I have a large collection but I find myself wearing Diptyque on rotation at the moment - most recently Fleur de Peau, but also Philosykos, Tam Dao, and Orphéon for evening. FdP or Glossier You for work. However I love Chanel No 5 (or at least the extrait de parfum - the eau de toilette is thin and awful) so may taste may not suit you.

NowIsTheWinterOfOurDiscontent · 25/08/2026 21:19

Oh wow, tons of recommendations, thanks so much!

It's funny how our tastes change as we get older. And maybe what suits the chemistry of our skin. And how we just get bored of stuff or associate it with a particular time of our life (for good or bad!)

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