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3 hour train journey to “meet the team” What to wear.

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GargoylesofBeelzebub · Yesterday 19:26

I have stage 4 of an interview process next week. They want me to meet them face to face before formally offering me the role. There’s lunch and then some meetings with the team.

Because the team are spread all over the country we’re to meet in a central location which is a 3 hour train journey for me. I arrive on the day with very little time to spare before the lunch.

Really struggling with what to wear in terms of how formal to be but also something that will survive the train journey without me looking like a crumpled mess. Or should I change just before the train gets in?

I need sleeves as hate my arms and have big boobs so need something that has a waist. Any suggestions?

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MyDarlingRose · Yesterday 21:25

Some kind of crepe fabric dress would do well without wrinkling and would be cool for the heat as well.

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 21:27

GargoylesofBeelzebub · Yesterday 20:56

Yes. And I haven't seen anyone wearing that sort of pre Covid corporate wear since well, pre Covid

Silverbirchleaf · Yesterday 21:30

Not sure where you are in the country, but down south, it’s going to be hot, very hot.

https://www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-tuck-detail-short-sleeve-cotton-midi-dress-teal/p114806871

Itsalittlebitwarm · Yesterday 21:41

There's not much that could decimate your outfit on a 3 hour train journey so just wear what you intent to show up in. Swap shoes for more comfortable ones, that's it really. Good luck with your interview 👍 xx

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · Yesterday 21:48

Itsalittlebitwarm · Yesterday 21:41

There's not much that could decimate your outfit on a 3 hour train journey so just wear what you intent to show up in. Swap shoes for more comfortable ones, that's it really. Good luck with your interview 👍 xx

Whoa, seriously? Sweat. Coffee drips. Mayo leaking from a sandwich. Tomato ditto. Some idiot jogging against you with something. A nosebleed. A passing kid who's just eaten a jam sandwich.
So. Many. Possibilities. 😂

chipsticksmammy · Yesterday 21:53

Silverbirchleaf · Yesterday 21:30

Not sure where you are in the country, but down south, it’s going to be hot, very hot.

https://www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-tuck-detail-short-sleeve-cotton-midi-dress-teal/p114806871

This is the best recommendation on the thread. It’s a lovely dress. Will pair great with some leather flats.

I’d look a mess in that M&S blouse after sitting for three hours on a train 😂I’m not the most demure of people. I was boiling hot a few weeks ago after having to travel a few hours across London. The train had A/C but it was so hot outside when the doors opened at stations.

chipsticksmammy · Yesterday 21:53

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · Yesterday 21:48

Whoa, seriously? Sweat. Coffee drips. Mayo leaking from a sandwich. Tomato ditto. Some idiot jogging against you with something. A nosebleed. A passing kid who's just eaten a jam sandwich.
So. Many. Possibilities. 😂

British trains are also not very clean.

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 22:02

chipsticksmammy · Yesterday 21:53

This is the best recommendation on the thread. It’s a lovely dress. Will pair great with some leather flats.

I’d look a mess in that M&S blouse after sitting for three hours on a train 😂I’m not the most demure of people. I was boiling hot a few weeks ago after having to travel a few hours across London. The train had A/C but it was so hot outside when the doors opened at stations.

I prefer this one. The higher neck looks more formal but without being "corporate"

You might like this at John Lewis:
www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-short-sleeve-cotton-kimono-dress-auro-orange/p115096767?s_share=jlappdroid

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 22:05

GargoylesofBeelzebub · Yesterday 20:44

They booked the travel for me and didn’t give an option to stay overnight and anyway I am volunteering for most of the week at an event.

Surely as a senior finance professional you can say 'sod the ticket they booked' and not use it? Travel like a normal human being the night before?

GargoylesofBeelzebub · Yesterday 22:07

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 22:05

Surely as a senior finance professional you can say 'sod the ticket they booked' and not use it? Travel like a normal human being the night before?

There’s also the second part of the post that’s relevant to why not…

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FishPie2 · Yesterday 22:15

If you order the M & S blouse order one a size down as well as I have tried it on in the shop and it comes up quite large. I usually buy a 12 and the 10 was still roomy. I ended up not buying it due to the fit.

Wingwalk · Yesterday 22:21

I have a couple of these wrap look dresses (they're not full wrap dresses, they have a zip up the back) from Closet - I bought from Vinted new with tags. V flattering for boobs/waist although you might want to wear a vest underneath. The reason I'm recommending is that the fabric, somehow, just never seems to wrinkle. The black one has been a godsend for me when going to far flung places for work on multiple trains etc. I have it in sage green too.

https://share.google/BHifHoYUKmLunzl5R

UnintentionalArcher · Yesterday 22:31

GargoylesofBeelzebub · Yesterday 20:55

Yes this is my problem. Haven’t had or done an in person interview for such a long time that I don’t know what’s what with expected attire!

I also haven’t done an in-person interview for years until recently. Although I knew that the sector I was interviewing in was likely more relaxed in dress code than my current sector (career change!) I went smarter than I thought their day to day normal would be. I wanted to signal professionalism and thought better slightly overdressed than underdressed.

I had a two hour train journey and wore a soft wool midi skirt from Whistles - thick material that I knew wouldn’t crease and is comfy. I took a blazer in a bag and put it on when I got there. Same with smart shoes - I travelled in trainers and changed. I got the job. It wasn’t the outfit, obviously, but things like that need to be right so you don’t raise red flags and can get on with the business of impressing them!

Good luck, although it sounds like a relative formality.

Pistachiocake · Yesterday 22:35

I'd wear something like the lululemon align wide leg trousers in a dark colour and a loose blouse in crease free fabric, with a smartish jacket/coat depending on the weather

moltopianissimo · Yesterday 22:38

TheSquareMile · Yesterday 20:35

That is kind of the opposite of having sleeves.

Wingwalk · Yesterday 22:38

Gettingbysomehow · Yesterday 22:26

I would wear one of my baukjen dresses for a big interview. They dont crease and are certainly smart enough even with flat shoes.

https://www.baukjen.com/products/daryl-printed-midi-dress-black-polka?variant=58163866501501

https://www.baukjen.com/products/mariella-printed-midi-dress?variant=56827650244989

I might change into smarter shoes at the venue.

Very pretty dresses but imo nowhere near smart enough for a professional meeting

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 22:49

Wingwalk · Yesterday 22:38

Very pretty dresses but imo nowhere near smart enough for a professional meeting

Both of those are perfectly suitable.

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 22:50

Gettingbysomehow · Yesterday 22:26

I would wear one of my baukjen dresses for a big interview. They dont crease and are certainly smart enough even with flat shoes.

https://www.baukjen.com/products/daryl-printed-midi-dress-black-polka?variant=58163866501501

https://www.baukjen.com/products/mariella-printed-midi-dress?variant=56827650244989

I might change into smarter shoes at the venue.

Spot on (especially the polka dot, no pun intended)

TheSquareMile · Yesterday 22:51

moltopianissimo · Yesterday 22:38

That is kind of the opposite of having sleeves.

I think that the line about sleeves was added in a later edit.

Wingwalk · Yesterday 23:37

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 22:49

Both of those are perfectly suitable.

Not, in my opinion, for a senior finance role. I have never seen a woman in this sort of role wear a floaty chiffon dress for a business meeting. Lovely for lunch or early dinner. Inappropriate for a corporate interview - sorry!

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 23:44

Wingwalk · Yesterday 23:37

Not, in my opinion, for a senior finance role. I have never seen a woman in this sort of role wear a floaty chiffon dress for a business meeting. Lovely for lunch or early dinner. Inappropriate for a corporate interview - sorry!

Neither of those dresses are "floaty chiffon"

They are entirely appropriate for this time of year and current temperatures.