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3 hour train journey to “meet the team” What to wear.

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GargoylesofBeelzebub · 24/07/2026 19:26

I have stage 4 of an interview process next week. They want me to meet them face to face before formally offering me the role. There’s lunch and then some meetings with the team.

Because the team are spread all over the country we’re to meet in a central location which is a 3 hour train journey for me. I arrive on the day with very little time to spare before the lunch.

Really struggling with what to wear in terms of how formal to be but also something that will survive the train journey without me looking like a crumpled mess. Or should I change just before the train gets in?

I need sleeves as hate my arms and have big boobs so need something that has a waist. Any suggestions?

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ilovebrie8 · 28/07/2026 16:07

Bargain in the sale

ItsFreakingHot · 29/07/2026 06:13

Personally I'd err on the cautious side and wear smart (black) trousers and a blouse as you can't really go wrong with that.
The main thing you need to worry about then is making sure your blouse gets there in one piece. I think the idea of changing when you get there is a good one, or take a spare emergency option with you in a bag of you don't want to faff with changing but still need a plan B.
Good luck.

NototerrorismIntheUK · 29/07/2026 11:56

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 24/07/2026 20:55

Yes this is my problem. Haven’t had or done an in person interview for such a long time that I don’t know what’s what with expected attire!

It's not really an interview as such since they are then offering you the job anyway. More a formality. Lots of useful suggestions on thread. Whatever, you feel comfortable in, suitable for a train journey and the weather on the day.

Bloozie · 29/07/2026 12:31

Just to say that the M&S shirt is amazingly lovely and good luck.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 29/07/2026 14:53

Bunnycat101 · 27/07/2026 14:41

For what it’s worth I had my interview today. I was glad I had a jacket and was equally glad I ditched any notion of wearing heels. I think you should still be pitching up a notch for an interview situation. My panel were smart but not in suits but it was me that was interviewing not them. I was not out of place going more formal.

Actually I agree with you. It’s not a bad idea to bring and wear a blazer/jacket to the interview. You can always take it off. Err on the side of caution.

Imanautumn · 29/07/2026 23:06

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 24/07/2026 20:16

No staying overnight is not an option. I’m a senior finance professional.

And they don’t believe in hotels…?!?

Imanautumn · 29/07/2026 23:07

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 25/07/2026 08:38

I know a Senior Finance Professional and her Mum let her stay away overnight.

She even goes to the shops by herself (with a list).

🤣🤣🤣

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 30/07/2026 09:28

Imanautumn · 29/07/2026 23:07

🤣🤣🤣

Oh dear. Reading comprehension not your strong point is it?😂😂😂

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Wingwalk · 30/07/2026 12:47

Imanautumn · 29/07/2026 23:06

And they don’t believe in hotels…?!?

Open the quote history, she was answering two different questions.
Also she's explained she's busy the day before so can't stay overnight.

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