Please help - big boobs but hate bras, is there an alternative?

[Misha1998]

I have fairly big boobs (was a 32F pre kids no idea what it is now with 3 little kids and years of breastfeeding! not perky anymore either super soft instead). Not sure what my actual size is now.

Ive always hated wearing a bra, could get away without wearing one pre kids and I was ok. now I feel far too self conscious to do this, but if I wear a crop top style top it is so unflattering - uniboob, boobs crushed into each other, weird shape, makes my whole upper body look a bit "off" etc. etc.I also hate the look of my boobs shoved together and up to show off a cleavage I tend to be quite self-conscious

what I want to know is does anyone else feel like this and have a solution? is there some sort of option for support to stop them jiggling everywhere but some shape too so they dont look so odd? ive looked at 'bralette' brands but they all are for smaller sizes.

Have a look at Molke .

I just bought a pack of three Comfyin wireless bras from Amazon. I’m a 36F, ordered the XL. They fit perfectly and are incredibly comfortable. £15!

There are a few soft cup bras/bralettes for your size OP. M and S do a lace bralette that covers your size. If you can get to a bravissimo store they should have a few as well.

Try manners London clothes. They’re super supportive and don’t need a bra

Thanks so much all I’ll be looking into them later!! Much appreciated