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I need a wedding outfit that ticks specific boxes

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CoastalGrey · 13/05/2026 19:47

I’m MOB later in the year but my plan to lose weight/get in shape is clearly not going to work out in time and I haven’t a clue what to wear that will be appropriate and feel ‘right’. I’d like to be both elegant and comfortable but that seems like an impossible combination.

I’m 5’2, a 16-18 with big boobs. I hate my arms and don’t have good legs. I don’t mind my boobs but realise they shouldn’t be taking centre stage on my child’s big day 😳

I don’t really suit the usual MOB type outfits - I did get a jumpsuit but it shows too much arm and I’m worried about going to the loo! I’ve bought nude sandals and clutch that I really like and they should go with most things.

Can anyone suggest something that ticks these boxes:

  • Covers arms to at least elbow but doesn’t look wintery
  • Long enough to hide legs but not so long I fall over it
  • Goes with my shoes and bag
  • Wedding colour scheme is green so I need to either avoid or complement
  • Budget up to £150ish

Thank you!

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Tortephant · 13/05/2026 19:55

slightly over budget but what about this?
www.meandem.com/high-neck-jersey-maxi-dress-cream-multi

PermanentTemporary · 13/05/2026 20:07

Wondered what you thought of this? Too long? Too meh?

eBay Hobbs

CoastalGrey · 13/05/2026 20:22

I like the pattern of the Me and Em one but think I need something less clingy and high necked. The shape of the Hobbs one is lovely but it feels a bit too flowery for me.

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gentlysnoringpooch · 13/05/2026 20:31

Is this one too casual? Iwww.marksandspencer.com/printed-square-neck-midi-smock-dress/p/clp23029610?color=NATURALMIX

CoastalGrey · 13/05/2026 20:40

Possibly but I really like that shape. I need a bit of structure but also like the idea of something slightly floaty.

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BendicksAddict · 13/05/2026 20:43

try Phase 8, the budget works and you will get something floaty

FlorenceBlack · 13/05/2026 20:43

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/mira-ombre-midi-dress-10015270600.html this is available in petite but you could consider buying the regular length so it would sit longer on you and have the sleeves shortened

Mira Ombre Midi Dress | Phase Eight UK |

Mira Ombre Midi Dress

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/mira-ombre-midi-dress-10015270600.html

FlippyKiYayFlippyFlipper · 13/05/2026 20:49

I think there are some lovely dresses on this site. no experience of shopping with them though.

They are under budget so you could have them professionally altered to the right length if need be?

https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/yours-london-curve-blue-floral-pleated-maxi-dress-163447-p

https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/yours-london-curve-blue-lace-wrap-maxi-dress-p

https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/yours-london-curve-blue-floral-ruffle-hem-dress-163438-p

CoastalGrey · 13/05/2026 21:43

Funnily enough my jumpsuit is from Phase Eight so you’re all spot on!

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CoastalGrey · 13/05/2026 21:44

FlippyKiYayFlippyFlipper · 13/05/2026 20:49

I think there are some lovely dresses on this site. no experience of shopping with them though.

They are under budget so you could have them professionally altered to the right length if need be?

https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/yours-london-curve-blue-floral-pleated-maxi-dress-163447-p

https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/yours-london-curve-blue-lace-wrap-maxi-dress-p

https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/yours-london-curve-blue-floral-ruffle-hem-dress-163438-p

The second one is very pretty, a lovely colour.

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LiquidSquid · 13/05/2026 21:46

New Look, possibly?

I know some of these are short but the model is 5'5 so they will be a bit longer on you, OP

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Skeldale · 13/05/2026 21:50

Have you tried following RantsandBigPants on instagram? She’s a larger lady and she shows how different clothes work for her body shape.

LiquidSquid · 13/05/2026 21:53

This one Out of your choices, is very lovely.

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CoastalGrey · 13/05/2026 21:54

Skeldale · 13/05/2026 21:50

Have you tried following RantsandBigPants on instagram? She’s a larger lady and she shows how different clothes work for her body shape.

No I don’t know her, off to follow!

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Megsdaughter · 13/05/2026 22:07

The sage one is wonderful and definitly not to much for the MOB.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 13/05/2026 22:20

@CoastalGrey I too am MOB later in the year. Mounjaro is my friend right now! I’m definitely not a size 18 any more. It works.

SkinnyOatFlatWhiteForMePlease · 13/05/2026 22:30

CoastalGrey · 13/05/2026 21:54

No I don’t know her, off to follow!

Have a look at the YouTube shorts she does called ‘size by side’. They are really helpful.

EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 02:17

This is a 16, though not the petite range. Are the sleeves too short, OP? It's 100% silk.

https://www.otrium.co.uk/product/jemima-midi-dress-green

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EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 02:18

This one is an 18, & is 98% silk with a tiny bit of stretch.

https://www.otrium.co.uk/product/jemima-midi-dress-green

I need a wedding outfit that ticks specific boxes