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I have a summer wedding to go to and am super excited, advice please.

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Italiangreyhound · 30/04/2026 00:10

I have a summer wedding to go to and am super excited.

I love pale greens and blues. I don't need anything too long or too short.

I am over 60, pretty short (5'2), can't wear heels, overweight, apple-shaped, and would rather not show tops of my arms or too much cleavage!

I love this dress. It is pretty much top of my price range.

[[https://www.wallis.co.uk/product/wallis-petite-floral-ottoman-fit-flare-midi-dress_byy16923?colour=ivory&size=14&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21371827626&gbraid=0AAAAABeX2nfLgRv27vcNsqAnnszDOlT7X&gclid=Cj0KCQjwkrzPBhCqARIsAJN460m6f8WZAHQGU0WJs7DcKfz8XDhW-RMFjcHCueGd6IBEcRdeNFq0FPcaAh1QEALw_wcB

Any suggestions, please.

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Italiangreyhound · 07/05/2026 22:29

Or this...
Navy Lipsey jacket

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su601061/w59182

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LiquidSquid · 07/05/2026 22:29

That's nice.

I personally prefer the bolero, I've just had a look & id go for the Navy, I like the detailing on the back, but go with whatever you will be more comfortable in.

Italiangreyhound · 07/05/2026 22:30

The dress has dark blue and green and I'm kind of keen to avoid white or cream really.

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LiquidSquid · 07/05/2026 22:37

Italiangreyhound · 07/05/2026 22:30

The dress has dark blue and green and I'm kind of keen to avoid white or cream really.

Yes I think Navy/some other Blue will go well.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 07/05/2026 22:39

Is there no shorter jacket. You don’t want too long over fit and flare and definitely not a granny bolero. Is there a navy shorter one?

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LiquidSquid · 07/05/2026 23:47

I think the Navy collarless one will be about the right length for the dress, but I also don't understand the hate for a boleroGrin

Italiangreyhound · 07/05/2026 23:50

Thank you.

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PhaedraTwo · 08/05/2026 00:46

Zara has a number of cropped, navy jackets. Here's 2 but there are others on their website. Jacket should be no longer than waist length.

https://www.zara.com/uk/en/cropped-blazer-with-shoulder-pads-p02411573.html

https://www.zara.com/uk/en/short-blazer-with-topstitching-zw-collection-p02130797.html

The bolero is awful.

Aco8171 · 08/05/2026 05:19

Defiantly41 · 30/04/2026 12:35

That’s a lovely dress. A few more options from Phase Eight

That first one on the left is way to white 🤣

PhaedraTwo · 08/05/2026 08:27

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 07/05/2026 22:39

Is there no shorter jacket. You don’t want too long over fit and flare and definitely not a granny bolero. Is there a navy shorter one?

What's a "granny" bolero?

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 08/05/2026 08:35

@PhaedraTwo Most of them! Never worn by anyone younger. Would a 30 year old be seen dead in one? Obviously not. Who wants a jacket that is essentially just sleeves and rounded flaps at the front? When did you last see Princess Kate or anyone with style go near one? They are best avoided and would spoil the look here. A decent dress needs a decent jacket.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 08/05/2026 08:41

Something like this? Or a plain fabric like the blazer?

I have a summer wedding to go to and am super excited, advice please.
I have a summer wedding to go to and am super excited, advice please.
PhaedraTwo · 08/05/2026 08:52

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 08/05/2026 08:35

@PhaedraTwo Most of them! Never worn by anyone younger. Would a 30 year old be seen dead in one? Obviously not. Who wants a jacket that is essentially just sleeves and rounded flaps at the front? When did you last see Princess Kate or anyone with style go near one? They are best avoided and would spoil the look here. A decent dress needs a decent jacket.

You've missed my point. The bolero is awful but there's no need to describe it as a "granny" bolero. That's just casual ageism.

BeckyBloom · 08/05/2026 10:36

Actually kate wore a white fluffy bolero on the evening of her wedding. Sometimes it is ok… not always ‘granny’

LiquidSquid · 08/05/2026 11:22

BeckyBloom · 08/05/2026 10:36

Actually kate wore a white fluffy bolero on the evening of her wedding. Sometimes it is ok… not always ‘granny’

Indeed. Kate looked lovely

I have a summer wedding to go to and am super excited, advice please.
MeetMeOnTheCorner · 08/05/2026 11:47

And has she worn one since? Probably not. Overall it’s the MOB shops that push them - you simply don’t see one anywhere else!

SunshineSpice · 08/05/2026 11:52

The original dress is lovely and I agree navy jacket neutral shoes perhaps a blue bag

Shinyhappyapple · 08/05/2026 16:39

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 08/05/2026 08:41

Something like this? Or a plain fabric like the blazer?

Boleros may not currently be in fashion (although as far as I’m concerned they remain part of appropriate wedding guest wear), but those jackets look like something that is part of a formal work suit. They don’t go with OP’s dress at all.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 08/05/2026 17:11

The op said navy or green. So what navy jacket doesn’t look like work wear? Almost impossible. A high quality light tweed effect is classy and green is incredibly difficult to match. I think every jacket is what can be worn to work and that’s why smart women always have one that coordinates with the dress. Where that’s not possible, op has a navy jacket, bolero or nothing as a choice.

Italiangreyhound · 08/05/2026 20:16

Oooh I love Kate's little jacket. Somethi g like that would be nice.

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LiquidSquid · 08/05/2026 20:28

Italiangreyhound · 08/05/2026 20:16

Oooh I love Kate's little jacket. Somethi g like that would be nice.

Have a look on Etsy.

The Pink one also comes in Blue, but it's not shown.

I have a summer wedding to go to and am super excited, advice please.
I have a summer wedding to go to and am super excited, advice please.
MeetMeOnTheCorner · 08/05/2026 21:12

@LiquidSquid Do they go with the dress? Not for me. Kate’s knit is 2011 isn’t it? It will also be expensive! The Etsy ones don’t.

Italiangreyhound · 08/05/2026 21:13

Thoughts on this Navy javket please?

Navy blue https://amzn.eu/d/07a5SS2h

Also in blue, haze blue or deep blue!

Amazon

Amazon

https://amzn.eu/d/07a5SS2h?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-style-and-beauty-5523482-i-have-a-summer-wedding-to-go-to-and-am-super-excited-advice-please

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Italiangreyhound · 08/05/2026 21:23

I have another wedding in the autumn. So I am keeping both dresses. I rarely buy anything not from a supermarket or charity shop! So I need accessories to work with both!

I think a dark plain navy blue jacket and shoulder bag will go with both my dresses.

This one for a summer wedding
Ivory Wallis Floral Ottoman
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This one for an autumn wedding
Geometric Print Pleated Midi Dress
Style:14564260
Colour:Navy
www.roman.co.uk/petite-geometric-print-pleated-midi-dress-14564260

Ivory Wallis Petite Floral Ottoman Fit & Flare Midi Dress | Wallis

Discover Petite Floral Ottoman Fit & Flare Midi Dress available to buy online at wallis.co.uk/. Available with quick delivery and easy return options. Shop now!

https://www.wallis.co.uk/product/wallis-petite-floral-ottoman-fit-flare-midi-dress_byy16923?colour=ivory&size=14&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21371827626&gbraid=0AAAAABeX2nfLgRv27vcNsqAnnszDOlT7X&gclid=Cj0KCQjwkrzPBhCqARIsAJN460m6f8WZAHQGU0WJs7DcKfz8XDhW-RMFjcHCueGd6IBEcRdeNFq0FPcaAh1QEALw_wcB

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