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Ideas for a flattering London summer wedding dress after a split

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PithyBeaker · 20/04/2026 13:02

I would LOVE some ideas for gorgeous dresses that might work for a London summer wedding. Context is that I just split from partner I was expecting to go to the wedding with so I’d like to look smashing and like I DNGAF. I’m not much of one for dressing up and have nothing to wear. The couple are old friends from uni and there will be many old faces there. I’m almost 5,10 (so most dresses in shops are too short) and a size 10. Don’t want to wear heels. Thanks in advance!!!

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TheSquareMile · 23/04/2026 22:39

@PithyBeaker

Are any of your friends going too, OP?

I was wondering whether they had said what they were planning to wear.

Re length, I would suggest 'Midaxi' length for a City wedding, especially if you need to walk from the Church to the reception.

outerspacepotato · 24/04/2026 15:11

I like the Cosima blue dress and really like the Bella Freud red dress both on page 2.

GreenCandleWax · 25/04/2026 12:01

PithyBeaker · 20/04/2026 15:18

Good shout. I quite like this but is it too casual for a wedding 🤔 farmrio.uk/products/artsy-flora-red-short-sleeve-midi-dress

You would have to dress it up a lot - its got quite a beachy vibe. Why not go for somethin a lot more dramatic - say a big colourful print? As you are tall you could carry off a big print in bright colours. That woud send the required NGAF message better than this one, imo. 🍀

Sharptonguedwoman · 25/04/2026 19:38

Drivingmissrangey · 20/04/2026 16:52

With that budget I’d be looking at Rixo, the Reformation possibly Me+Em. I find Me+Em great for taller people but you do run the risk of half a dozen others having the same dress.

The Fold also has a few lovely silk dresses that would be great for a wedding. I love this one but a bit above budget https://thefoldlondon.com/product/rivara-silk-chiffon-maxi-dress-green-and-ivory/?glCountry=UK&setCurrencyId=0&utm_source=google&utm_medium=paid&utm_campaign=22420916309&utm_content=shopping&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22414410609&gclid=CjwKCAjwnZfPBhAGEiwAzg-VzIDXDIt6Xy6QLR8k9ZAgcMTrdXtZhk1F4lJgEBwY0CZGg2rA8eTFDxoCxmMQAvD_BwE

I’m a tall girl and love that.

Peony1985 · 25/04/2026 22:04

@PithyBeaker Good shout. I quite like this but is it too casual for a wedding 🤔

I think the pull tie gap in the middle isn’t quite right for a wedding.
I like The Fold one but no way is that worth £750. It looks like Ted Baker or similar high street to me.

Sharptonguedwoman · 26/04/2026 17:38

Maybe Hobbs? They have nice clothes, or Roman.

Peony1985 · 28/04/2026 21:44

This Reiss dress is similar to your style but less beach

Ideas for a flattering London summer wedding dress after a split
PithyBeaker · 11/06/2026 10:48

PithyBeaker · 20/04/2026 15:18

Good shout. I quite like this but is it too casual for a wedding 🤔 farmrio.uk/products/artsy-flora-red-short-sleeve-midi-dress

Ladies, just an update that I bought this, it just arrived and looks lovely so I’ll probably wear it. Taking recs now on shoes to go with it… I’m 5’10” so nothing very high (or even remotely high, two inches absolute max and I prioritise comfort bc I plan to dance all night at this wedding 😎). I have a pair of low black sling backs with a pointy heel that are v elegant but I think don’t go with the dress… what I’d really like is a pair of 90s brown leather sandals w a low chunky heel … like my ten yr old self rocked circa 1995 … but I’ve no idea where to find something like that. Any other suggestions v welcome. X

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EleanorMc67 · 11/06/2026 11:11

PithyBeaker · 11/06/2026 10:48

Ladies, just an update that I bought this, it just arrived and looks lovely so I’ll probably wear it. Taking recs now on shoes to go with it… I’m 5’10” so nothing very high (or even remotely high, two inches absolute max and I prioritise comfort bc I plan to dance all night at this wedding 😎). I have a pair of low black sling backs with a pointy heel that are v elegant but I think don’t go with the dress… what I’d really like is a pair of 90s brown leather sandals w a low chunky heel … like my ten yr old self rocked circa 1995 … but I’ve no idea where to find something like that. Any other suggestions v welcome. X

Glad the dress is a success, OP! I can't imagine flat brown retro sandals looking good with this dress for this occasion ...

What about these? Their shoes are always comfy. And the woven leather adds some texture & interest & has the right vibe for the dress IMO.

https://www.anoncph.co.uk/products/senara-10-hand-braided-hand-braided-leather-gold-2

Senara 10 hand-braided Hand-braided leather Gold

Senara 10 Flat and pointy hand-braided sandals made with vegetable-tanned calf leather lining and insole.

https://www.anoncph.co.uk/products/senara-10-hand-braided-hand-braided-leather-gold-2

PithyBeaker · 11/06/2026 11:13

EleanorMc67 · 11/06/2026 11:11

Glad the dress is a success, OP! I can't imagine flat brown retro sandals looking good with this dress for this occasion ...

What about these? Their shoes are always comfy. And the woven leather adds some texture & interest & has the right vibe for the dress IMO.

https://www.anoncph.co.uk/products/senara-10-hand-braided-hand-braided-leather-gold-2

Ooh these are gorgeous but I’ll be wearing big silver Georg Jensen earrings… so maybe not gold….

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EleanorMc67 · 11/06/2026 11:17

Also Anonymous Copenhagen with a low chunky heel (if that's what you want). Some in the sale - you can filter by heel height, colour etc.

Ideas for a flattering London summer wedding dress after a split
Ideas for a flattering London summer wedding dress after a split
Ideas for a flattering London summer wedding dress after a split
EleanorMc67 · 11/06/2026 11:18

PithyBeaker · 11/06/2026 11:13

Ooh these are gorgeous but I’ll be wearing big silver Georg Jensen earrings… so maybe not gold….

Just seen your update - filter by silver & heel height (they do it by increments of millimetres!!). Loads of lovely ones!

PithyBeaker · 11/06/2026 11:31

EleanorMc67 · 11/06/2026 11:21

They come in silver too. Plus all these flats - a couple in the sale, but not the woven ones! But they're the kind of thing that I think would be really useful at other times to dress things up instantly.

https://www.anoncph.co.uk/collections/flats

Legend. Thank you for this!!!!

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Poppingby · 11/06/2026 11:58

If I were your height, size, budget, age etc I would indulge my eternal hankering for a Vivienne Westwood dress. https://www.mytheresa.com/gb/en/women/vivienne-westwood-long-monday-checked-cotton-polo-dress-red-p01181745. And I'd get a hat and some red lipstick.

Women's Luxury Fashion & Designer Shopping | Mytheresa

https://www.mytheresa.com/gb/en/women/vivienne-westwood-long-monday-checked-cotton-polo-dress-red-p01181745

Poppingby · 11/06/2026 11:59

Oh. Just RTFT. Lovely dress op!

Poppingby · 11/06/2026 12:02

Esska good for the type of shoes you want (and worth the money - comfy and last years).

esskashoes.com/collections/sandals?srsltid=AfmBOootAe7UYd4uWlp3PvxIc_Y9z3WquQvRo8gPHFSJa7U5LaB_QTh5

Melarus · 11/06/2026 12:40

That's a dynamite dress! Gorgeous. And the Anon Copenhagen sandals are very cool, they'll look amazing and I wish I had a reason to buy them myself

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