Facelift etc..

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I’m looking to have face “refreshment” surgery in Nordesthetics Clinic in Lithuania. (lift,upper lid reduction and possibly brow lift) …i’m ( suddenly!) in late 50’s and after few tough years and losing few stones I want to feel good and reward myself for once.
I’m fatigued after researching uk options, and not finding a clear winner for me, but I’ve found this clinic to have excellent reviews and the least percentage of poor reviews so far … ( of those with 500 + reviews , except the one uk surgeon who charges from 35k for a facelift .. )…so I’ve decided to bite the bullet and book …any recommendations, advice or experience with them you can share, would be great , (first or second hand),most reviews I read were about great body surgery, and general high standards but not more specific about individual surgeons etc ..so, I don’t have nearly as much specific info as I would like …thank you !

I wouldn’t want to tell anyone else about it until afterwards, and depending how I feel .….It is very personal, it being our face .. identity .. big scary/brave decision.... following quite a journey .. i honestly think it’s v shallow people who find it shallow 😂 ( no, not after the latest hot designer look, nor pretend to be young, and have nothing better to do with my money tree 🙄)

I agree OP, I’m currently researching to get something done in the next few years, but not sure if I will tell people about it for fear of judgement.
I’m not aiming to look 25 again, or look like a Kardashian - I just want to look like the me that I recognise. Since jowls run in my family, I know what’s coming down the line, and I plan on fighting it - I don’t mind wrinkles, but I don’t want my whole face shape to change.

@HornyHornersPinkyWinky exactly .. I honestly don’t see why pinning ears back is acceptable as corrective but not repositioning /pinning skin that’s sagged out of position 🙄

Lots of dated “ age gracefully” attitudes that were shaped hugely by men wanting to put women in their places, shame & tell them what they should and shouldn’t do/ look like at various stages of life. A reason more to do it actually ! 😂
it’s unfair enough that women’s bodies are put through so much hormone (& often other) strain & changes throughout life, and pressure /expectations to look good, until suddenly we are ‘not allowed’ to look good or care … ( wtf) ..

Can someone tell me at what age does caring about looking and feeling good becomes a naughty vanity ungraceful women engage in 😂🙄