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Can I wear this?

53 replies

Travellingraspberry · 30/08/2025 13:38

I've got two weddings to go to next year, both seperate groups of people so looking to perhaps spend a little more than i might usually do and get a dress that I can wear to both. They're both barn/tipi style venues in the summer.

I've got plenty of time to look but this dress has caught my eye https://www.karenmillen.com/blurred-floral-drama-woven-taffeta-maxi-dress/BKK26257.html

I'm early 40s, size 12, 5'7". I like that its a bit different but I think the cutout bits are making me worry its a bit young for me?

Blurred Floral Drama Woven Taffeta Maxi Dress | Karen Millen

This captivating Karen Millen maxi dress commands attention with its artistic blurred floral pattern and luxurious taffeta fabric that catches the light. The thoughtfully designed plunge neckline frames the décolletage with sophistication, while the...

https://www.karenmillen.com/blurred-floral-drama-woven-taffeta-maxi-dress/BKK26257.html

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WellThisIsFranklyDreadful · 30/08/2025 13:39

Will you be comfortable in it? If so then why not!

seratoninmoonbeams · 30/08/2025 13:40

Looks lovely to me.

RedPandaFluff · 30/08/2025 13:42

Ooooooh I love it and I’d wear it! And I’m 46 Grin

Baguettesandcheeseforever · 30/08/2025 13:42

It’s a gorgeous dress and from how you describe yourself, it will love great on you.

Schoolstressed · 30/08/2025 13:47

I think it’s really nice and I’d wear it at 50 if I lost a few pounds.

Fumnudge · 30/08/2025 13:50

It's lovely. My only concern would be if you sit down and side rolls coincide with the cut out. But you might not give a crap about that sort of thing.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 30/08/2025 13:50

I like it! I have a dress with a cut out,and I'm 61 (I'm a size 8, but I don't think that makes a difference really!). Clothes don't have ages attached to them.

Buy it, and enjoy wearing it, OP.

Kaleidoscope101 · 30/08/2025 13:54

I love it. I am 46 and would wear it if I had the figure for it (They don't even have it in my size 🤣)

Travellingraspberry · 30/08/2025 16:13

Thanks everyone. Think I'll order it to try on and see how I feel in it!

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Neveranynamesleft · 30/08/2025 16:56

I love the colour/ pattern but not sure about the cut outs, especially if sat down for long periods of time, it may not be comfortable. It's one of those where you can only tell when actually try on.

Cherrysoup · 30/08/2025 17:29

Love it, do it! Will you have some form of wrap, temperatures can drop dramatically in the evening, especially if you’re going to be rural.

dudsville · 30/08/2025 17:29

That's a fabulous choice. It manages to be very suitable while also being interesting, which is very rare.

OfftoWorkIGo · 30/08/2025 17:46

I think it’s lovely! Try it on and see.

holachicatita · 30/08/2025 17:52

Gorgeous. Wish I had a wedding to wear it too.

olivelime · 30/08/2025 18:16

I think it's gorgeous and lots of options for different shoes. I wouldn't worry about the cut outs and sitting down. No one focuses on other people's tummies when eating.

WFHforevermore · 30/08/2025 18:30

Travellingraspberry · 30/08/2025 16:13

Thanks everyone. Think I'll order it to try on and see how I feel in it!

Finally a dress i love, its stunning!! Post a pic!!

AhBiscuits · 30/08/2025 18:35

It's gorgeous. I'm tempted to order it for a wedding i have later in the year.

cannaethink · 30/08/2025 18:37

Ooh it’s stunning! If I had a suitable occasion I’d buy it too 😁

CinnamonCinnabar · 30/08/2025 19:07

I like but would also be concerned about the cut outs as I'm very pale so they'd be very obvious. A dressmaker would probably be able to add some internal lining fabric to cover them, or a similarly coloured strapless vest or body could be a good solution

Ceebs85 · 30/08/2025 19:10

I LOVE it. I'm 40, significantly fatter than you (they don't make it in my size) but I'd still wear it 😁

Travellingraspberry · 30/08/2025 22:25

It's ordered! I shall report back once it arrives

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Stephybris62 · 30/08/2025 23:35

Oh I absolutely love that dress!! Gorgeous!!

NoKidsSendDogs · 31/08/2025 02:13

I love a cut out dress. I'm 34 but I would wear it at 50. Also, the cut outs are high enough that you aren't going to bulge out, esp at a size 12. I'm tempted to order it myself tbh.

riversflows · 31/08/2025 07:55

I'd wear it on holiday or at the beach. Not at a wedding.

SpiralSister · 31/08/2025 08:23

It’s lovely! Absolutely you can wear it, of course. If it helps, I am 57 and a size 12 and will be wearing a dress with a cut out at the back today. And why not?