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Tote bag that stands up by itself….

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Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 11:09

Hi all, I would like a new tote for work (school, have got six weeks to source). What I want is one that stands up by itself because having one that flops under my desk is something that annoys me (probably more than it should tbh but here we are!) Have tried googling structured totes but a lot are popping up that I know are soft and have been displayed with card inserts etc. Amy recommendations? Budget up to about £80 but maybe a little more for something timeless that’ll last. Style wise I quite like classic, happy with leather or fabric.

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BitOutOfPractice · 23/07/2025 11:11

Speaking as someone who’s just had to disentangle the straps of my bag from the wheels of my office chair after it flopped next to my desk, I am following with interest.

cate16 · 23/07/2025 11:15

Another one follwing. I need to be able to look down and find things easily.

Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 11:24

Ha. Seems I’m not alone. I just don’t know what I should be googling. My colleague has one from Kate spade but they are £££

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DoodleLug · 23/07/2025 11:25

I think this is why we all use supermarket bags for life.

I have some beach bags and even cool bags which work well eg https://amzn.eu/d/iwjCqNp

Appreciate this isn't what you're looking for OP but might help others.

MissyB1 · 23/07/2025 11:27

Following also!

Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 11:30

DoodleLug · 23/07/2025 11:25

I think this is why we all use supermarket bags for life.

I have some beach bags and even cool bags which work well eg https://amzn.eu/d/iwjCqNp

Appreciate this isn't what you're looking for OP but might help others.

True, they would probably work!

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Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 11:31

@menopausalfart (a name I can relate to), thanks - have you got one of these? Can’t see how rigid they are from the pics

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AdventureCode · 23/07/2025 11:31

John lewis leather tote?
I bought a red leather one there some years ago and it stood solid for quite a few years before softening. It's my go to.

menopausalfart · 23/07/2025 11:38

@Fairislesweater My DM has the sturdy bag and ticks the boxes for what you're looking for.

Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 11:38

@menopausalfart thanks, sounds good - will have a look!

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Lilsoph · 23/07/2025 11:41

Google ‘coterie leather’. Hand made sturdy leather tote bags.

Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 11:43

MellowPinkDeer · 23/07/2025 11:40

I use this for work - stands up! ( that would also drive me nuts lol)

https://www.mulberry.com/gb/shop/women/bags/north-south-bayswater-tote-night-sky-heavy-grain

Thank you it’s lovely but a teeny bit out of my price range 😂

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MellowPinkDeer · 23/07/2025 11:44

Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 11:43

Thank you it’s lovely but a teeny bit out of my price range 😂

I’m really sorry for not reading your first post properly OP!

Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 11:52

MellowPinkDeer · 23/07/2025 11:44

I’m really sorry for not reading your first post properly OP!

Ha that’s ok - I knew when I saw it was mulberry it would be too expensive - did that stop me from clicking? Of course not <wonders why I’m skint>

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Calypsocuckoo · 23/07/2025 12:19

A Marc Jacobs tote bag would be ideal for you as they are structured boxy bags, would be more than your budget but you could look on Vinted or buy one of the dupes that they seem to sell in the boutique type shops in big towns.
or something like this if the budget can stretch ……

uk.coach.com/products/cargo-tote-bag-26/CP164-LHBLK.html?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21864236855&gbraid=0AAAAADxhAYJmstbdSXg_Qi7gO_ZDacDgo&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI6LTp8e3SjgMVkZVQBh0yziR4EAQYASABEgKKjvD_BwE

CortadoPlease · 23/07/2025 12:24

I have a Michael Kors Maddie that is structured enough to stand up. Sizewize it fits a laptop. I love it! You could try Vinted..?

FrodoBiggins · 23/07/2025 12:43

OP have you looked on Vinted? I got a beautiful dark brown Russell & Bromley one on there which stands up.
In fact I have a very similar one on my watch list which I was tempted not to share as I sort of still want to buy it but I really shouldn't as I already have a similar one. It's Bang on £80 and looks in great nick - https://www.vinted.co.uk/items/6463023390-russell-and-bromley-bag

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https://www.vinted.co.uk/items/6463023390-russell-and-bromley-bag

Fairislesweater · 23/07/2025 13:47

Thought about Vinted, but a bit worried about fakes. Not that it matters too much to me but if I’m buying a dupe I’d rather know!

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FancyBiscuitsLevel · 23/07/2025 14:01

i also clicked and now @MellowPinkDeeryou have forced me to fall in love with the black cherry option for that bag. I blame you completely if I blow my budget for refitting the downstairs loo on a lovely winter bag. (Who needs taps that work in a bathroom anyway?!)