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This top - yes or no?

55 replies

SkyOfficer · 09/04/2025 08:44

I went to M&S yesterday and picked up some trousers to try on. Picked up the nearest top to it cos I was wearing a dress and wanted to see what the trousers looked like with a top.

And I ended up really liking the top! I think it's cos I've lost a lot of weight recently and I just felt good in it. And it's different to my usual style and felt a bit cute. I didn't buy it and got home wondering whether I should.

I sent DD a link it and her only response was "ugly" haha.

Before I go spend £35 on a top, do you agree with DD or should I go back and get it?

https://www.marksandspencer.com/pure-cotton-polka-dot-bow-puff-sleeve-top/p/clp60751287?color=IVORYMIX&extid=ps_ps-pla-pmax_ggl_ww_ch__-UK-_-_bau&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwktO_BhBrEiwAV70jXor3RSXjrxc9t8g-uecSUvc0DuVrHpjmWU6g5_sbz8notFswwcrw-xoC1pQQAvD_BwE

M&S

Pure Cotton Square neck Polka Dot Bow Top | M&S Collection | M&S

On laid-back days, this pure cotton top makes a charming choice. Regular fit, with a modern square neckline and an all-over polka-dot print to create an elegant look. Puffed short sleeves and bow detailing on the front add a romantic finish. M&S Col...

https://www.marksandspencer.com/pure-cotton-polka-dot-bow-puff-sleeve-top/p/clp60751287?color=IVORYMIX&extid=ps_ps-pla-pmax_ggl_ww_ch__-_UK_-_-_bau&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwktO_BhBrEiwAV70jXor3RSXjrxc9t8g-uecSUvc0DuVrHpjmWU6g5_sbz8notFswwcrw-xoC1pQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

OP posts:
upsofloating · 09/04/2025 08:57

Not keen on the bows personally. They look a bit plonked on x

Outofthepan · 09/04/2025 08:58

I like it - go for it!

TheGoddessFrigg · 09/04/2025 08:59

It would be cute on a child. The bows are just too much

Mulledjuice · 09/04/2025 09:00

I think i would only like this top on someone with a v slim build. My boobs are too big, and shoulders too broad - I'd look like Grayson Perry.

Flybee · 09/04/2025 09:06

I don't hate it.... But I think it does depend on your body shape. I wouldn't wear it as despite being slim, I am carrot-shaped, so can't wear anything that accentuates my shoulders. I also hate the feel and look of cropped tops on myself.

TheLongRider · 09/04/2025 09:09

I think it would look better with black or cream trousers rather than the jeans as styled in the picture. I think it would look quite cute with a flounced or tiered skirt. If you're pear shaped the volume balances out your hips.

pictoosh · 09/04/2025 09:11

Looks short on the body.

I'm not a fan of frou frou, bows and frills but for some reason I rather like this...it's quirky.

As I say, it's a bit on the short side for my comfort.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 09/04/2025 09:13

Personally I think it's hideous. But I am not a fashionista, so am not the best person to ask!

LobeliaBaggins · 09/04/2025 09:14

No.

Flutterbyby · 09/04/2025 09:16

Awful

deeahgwitch · 09/04/2025 09:20

The bows look silly. And I love a bow.

Deathraystare · 09/04/2025 09:20

The bows spoil it. It looks silly.

GoldenPineapple15 · 09/04/2025 09:23

The bows are terrible, sorry. I would snip them off , but I guess that defeats the purpose of buying the blouse .

henlake7 · 09/04/2025 09:27

yeah, the bows kinda spoil it. It would be an otherwise nice blouse.
Not one Id buy though I could see me struggling with hiding my bra with that neckline,

Gall10 · 09/04/2025 09:31

Buy it….look at it for a few days….try it on with other clothes you have.
If you still like it, keep it.
If you don’t like it then M&S have a very good returns policy.

WoahThreeAces · 09/04/2025 09:32

I love it 😂 I don't follow fashion though and my daughter often has a "look" she gives me indicating she doesn't approve of my style choices 😁
But that top is awesome! I love a puffy sleeve!

BlossomBlossomBlossom · 09/04/2025 09:39

I like it! (And I despise M&Spencer clothes.) But it’s worryingly cheap - have you looked at how it’s finished inside? If you think it would last a summer, and you like how you look in it then it can’t be a bad buy. (Although there’s a risk you’ll see it on an EastEnders character. Which would make me set fire to anything I owned.)

TappyGilmore · 09/04/2025 09:43

Nope. Not with the bows.

Without the bows, it wouldn’t be my style but I could see why some people might like it.

BlossomBlossomBlossom · 09/04/2025 09:50

If you’d prefer something bolder, @SkyOfficer you should look at:

Sister Jane

They go at the same theme with considerably more vigour and pizzazz.

Coali · 09/04/2025 10:00

Mulledjuice · 09/04/2025 09:00

I think i would only like this top on someone with a v slim build. My boobs are too big, and shoulders too broad - I'd look like Grayson Perry.

I’ve got small boobs, but even I’d look like Grayson Perry in that top!

Lurkingandlearning · 09/04/2025 10:13

I don’t like it because of the bows, the sleeves and that it’s too short. Have you tried raising your arms to see how far it rises up?
If you like it, buy it and enjoy it

LolaLouise · 09/04/2025 12:27

The have the style in a few colours, theres a pale blue withot the bows that is much nicher, if it was the shape of the top you liked

Hoppinggreen · 09/04/2025 12:30

Not a fan, sorry

User19876536484 · 09/04/2025 12:32

If you cut the bows of it wouldn’t be too bad.

Daisyvodka · 09/04/2025 12:34

Honestly, i wouldn't wear it because its the wrong colour, shape, everything - but I think it's really cute and fun! Taste is so subjective - but I love seeing people play around with fashion. If it makes you feel good it in, wear it! Life is too short.

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