That waist cincher thing Sabrina Carpenter wore to the Brits last night

[Mogzillas]

Anyone seem anything like it for sale?

The red one with the little skirt attached?

I'm very conscious of my saggy tum in bed and I think something like that would cover me up really well but not seen anything like it before?

High end lingerie shops sell that sort of thing, seen them in France

surely being in your bed is a safe place when you can just be you and not self conscious about your tummy??!!

I'm talking about having sex, not just lay in bed doing crosswords!

Surely that’s not what the OP was asking??!! 🙄

You’re going to have this thread derailed very, very quickly, because some posters are absolutely allergic to any woman who enjoys frilly knickers and you will soon be told that wearing them makes you a HANDMAIDEN TO THE PATRIARCHY! 😂😂😂

Now that we’ve got this out of the way, I shall also look for this cincher, it’s lush!

🙄🙄🙄

It was by Victoria’s Secret. I’ve had a look on the website, and there are some fairly similar things in the lingerie section.

Thankyou! I'll look now x

I think they're called waspies.

Crosswords in bed? How rude 😀.

@skippy67 why the eye rolling.

Personally I agree with the poster who said surely it's the one place you should feel relaxed.

If you don't feel completely relaxed in front of your partner something is very wrong.

They are the one person who should love you as you are and if you feel you have to hide your body from them lest they recoil in disgust then perhaps you should rethink having sex with them

Are you for real??

I've been with this man TWENTYFIVE years.

Through 4 pregnancies and various illnesses.

I've lost 120lbs and my stomach is extremly baggy.

Does HE give a fuck? NO.
He can't keep his hands off me. Never has been able to.

But as a 43 year old woman who's suffering from a lack of confidence after a huge body change, I would like to boost MY OWN CONFIDENCE with some pretty and supportive underwear.

I don’t even have a baggy stomach, but dressing up for your man is fun and sexy.

(Unless you’re a MN fuddy duddy who not so secretly hates her bloke and would rather be doing crosswords, but the rest of us normal ones actually enjoy an exciting sex life. Which may well include dressing up in lacy knickers.)

I can’t think of anything worse to put on a ‘saggy tum’ than some frilly red lacy bandage. It didn’t do any favours for the beautiful and slim Sabrina Carpenter. As a fan I was disappointed she’d choose to be styled in such a lowbrow way.

OP I am with you. I like to look nice in bed and for me that means dressing up my wobbly/now saggy bits. DH doesn't give a flying fuck but it gives ME confidence, and he does of course appreciate the effort. It's a nice thing to do. Jeez. But this is MN. Women aren't meant to say out loud that they like sex and/or pleasing their men.

If you find something nice, please share links!

Just as well nobody is asking YOU to then, huh.

If this can add a little boost to your sex life go for it OP.
❤️❤️❤️.

I had a look on VS but couldn't find anything similar.

There was something alike on amazon but had very poor reviews!

I'll keep looking and share if I find anything.

I can’t think of anything worse to put on a ‘saggy tum’ than some frilly red lacy bandage

I don't think she's trying to seduce you though.

🤣🤣🤣

Take your opinion, roll it up, and consider the meaning of the word Suppository.

Some people enjoy dressing up. I know, it's shocking

[Grin]

Balls, that didn't work 😆

She's giving Les Dawson