That waist cincher thing Sabrina Carpenter wore to the Brits last night

[Mogzillas]

Anyone seem anything like it for sale?

The red one with the little skirt attached?

I'm very conscious of my saggy tum in bed and I think something like that would cover me up really well but not seen anything like it before?

There's a difference between 'dressing up' and 'wearing something to suck in my stomach for sex'.

Not your stomach, not your bloke, not your bed, not your vag, not your problem and your opinion is irrelevant. HTH. 😊

Hey OP, some of the posters here are such annoying bores that I’ve decided to wear my super tacky, super lacy, super skimpy red set tonight - #handmaidening in solidarity 😂😂😂😂

@Mogzillas , go google some corset sites, you are looking for a waspi

Good quality don't come cheap but you will feel so sexy in one

If you like stockings, a good 8 strap suspender belt is great as well

A site like this will give a few ideas https://www.swankypins.co.uk/

Ive not bought from there, its been a while since I shopped for anything in that line and Ive lost my links :(

Agent Provocateur have similar ! Ignore the negative comments and enjoy the underwear !😉

Price tag is quite eyewatering though lol ! I'm sure someone else will have a cheaper option

Comes in different colours, this is ridiculously flattering (I'm plus size)

www.curvykate.com/products/scantilly-indulgence-stretch-lace-body-ivory?variant=43073142915227

I don't need my stomach sucking in.
I'm 112lbs and a size 6.
I have loose skin, there's no fat to suck in, even a basic vest helps disguise the skin and stops it flopping about. It's more a sensory thing then worrying about what I look like to my husband. It's distracting and knocks my confidence so if I can stop that and wear something visually appealing at the same time it's a win-win in my book.

Agree you're looking for a 'waspi'. Have fun OP!

Try voight.com they have lots of different sets with some like this or similar at least

Personally, I think if a poster asks a specific question, don't post if you don't have the answer. Especially if you're going to be sanctimonious as well as unhelpful.

Deleted the suggestion as upon investigation it’s a Chinese knock-off site. Sorry! Thought I’d found something for you.

Just here to add a further recommendation for Scantilly. I've had bras and panties from there in the past that I absolutely loved and were incredibly supportive of my E cups!

Well one thing OP you have sussed Sabrina Carpenter out : her talent is a " sexy lingerie " model and certainly nothing to do with music or talent.
Sad that you feel you need to dress yourself up like that though and can't just be yourself though.

@Thepurpleheather I have got nothing against Sabrina carpenter but she is hardly known for her singing or talent is she? I'm not saying she is a bad singer but she does make a better lingerie model and her shows are all about what she is wearing and why do people always come on here and say "oh it's sad you can't just be yourself" like it's a major failing.
My natural self is hair everywhere and not wearing a bra but if I'm popping to the shop I brush my hair and put a bra on lol

As far as I'm aware she is known for simulating sex acts on stage, singing about sex and presenting herself as a porn star.
If OP wants to present herself as a porn star that's her choice. It just seems a shame when women equate dressing like a sex worker with real sexuality.

Personally I’d wear an old fashioned silky “slip” with no knickers. Covers everything but is still pretty.

That covers the breasts though, which might not be desired.

Maybe she just fancies a change
There's nothing wrong with sexy lingerie or big knickers or floor length nighties, thankfully we can wear what we want and have so much choice

My partner doesn't care what I wear but sometimes I want to put on makeup and a matching underwear set and shave my legs

I don't believe the two things are mutually exclusive.

its not about being relaxed it’s about feeling sexy. Not everyone is happy with a mum tum and saggy boobs and that’s ok. People are aloud to not like their bodies and want to improve it🤣

god mums net really doesn’t like women to be happy does it. If you’re not ok with your average body then god forbid you want to do something that makes you feel nice.

**for some reason the reply button didn’t work and I have lost who this was aimed at but the message still stands

Go cry then 😂

"As far as I'm aware she is known for simulating sex acts on stage, singing about sex and presenting herself as a porn star. If OP wants to present herself as a porn star that's her choice. It just seems a shame when women equate dressing like a sex worker with real sexuality."

What a patronising load of bollocks.

Peak mn 😂

Anything that cinches you isn't going to feel comfortable during sex or stay in place, just saying.