I don't remember the people speculating on Theresa Mays husband clothes or how well dressed he looked... and that's because the way a PM husband looks or dresses doesn't matter or is not important. When the PM spouse is a woman the way she dresses and looks is all that matters, she will be scrutinised by the press and the people constantly. The patriarchy really did a number on us.
hmmm I’m not sure it’s that simple. If the pm’s husband was dressed in scruffy dirty clothes, or a bright red (/other party colour) suit, that would get commented on. The reason men’s clothes get commented on less is largely because they’re generally dull and uniform. However, Jeremy corbyn’s and Boris Johnson’s clothes and appearances were discussed at great length on the media and by the public.
it’s an interesting question how and why women in our culture are the ones who society expects to dress up and wear make-up and be colourful, while men are. expected to stick to a narrower range of looks (at least in formal wear). In some countries women aren’t allowed to do that and that’s also seen as the patriarchy oppressing them. (which I agree it is… )
I also don’t think having your clothes discussed - whether you’re Boris, Jeremy, Theresa or Victoria - means nothing else matters and you can’t be discussed or judged on other topics.