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This dress for a first date

42 replies

Squeekachu · 06/02/2024 19:07

Late afternoon drinks and food at an indoor street food place. Possibly staying out longer if it goes well 😬

Am trying to veer away from my go to tea dresses/skater dresses.

Am a size 14 hourglass. 5'4. Pale skin and copper hair. I suit jewel tones esp greens/blues. Piercings/slightly alternative style so was going to wear with fishnets and chunky boots (with a heel to boost my height) and a biker jacket. Lots of silver jewellery.

Sound ok?

This dress for a first date
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PlumPeony · 06/02/2024 19:10

For me this would be being dressed up, but if your normal style is dressier and you feel comfortable in it, go for it.

Dotchange · 06/02/2024 19:10

It seems like it would totally suit your style. Go for it ( I mean, as long as you feel confident in it ) ☺️☺️

Owlcat42 · 06/02/2024 19:10

I think it’s lovely. Have fun!

Justcallmebebes · 06/02/2024 19:12

Perfect. Dress is lovely. Have fun

Chonkadoodle · 06/02/2024 19:12

i don’t think it needs fishnets! Just boots. You’ll look amazing! Love the dress

Squeekachu · 06/02/2024 19:34

@Chonkadoodle It definitely needs some kind of tights, will try with sheers as well as the fishnets. I don't like opaques.

Thanks all. Will report back once it arrives!

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Totallymessed · 06/02/2024 20:18

I love that dress - where's it from?

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Squeekachu · 06/02/2024 20:23

Was tempted by these two as well 😍

This dress for a first date
This dress for a first date
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Veryinteresting24 · 06/02/2024 20:24

Fabulous!

shivbo2014 · 06/02/2024 20:31

Sounds like a great outfit, please report back on the dress, I'm tempted to get it! Have fun!

CurlewKate · 06/02/2024 21:20

Far too much, IMHO.

Totallymessed · 06/02/2024 22:01

CurlewKate · 06/02/2024 21:20

Far too much, IMHO.

Don't agree. The OP is wearing it with boots and a biker jacket, not the shoes in the photo. She will look amazing.

GoingToBeLessRubbishAtLife · 06/02/2024 22:03

Is this a first meet?

Loopytiles · 06/02/2024 22:03

It’s a fantastic look you describe OP, but too much for the occasion IMO!

cheeseychops · 06/02/2024 22:06

For a first date in the afternoon I think it's too much. Looks like you're trying too hard.

Wictc · 06/02/2024 22:06

Looks great, wouldn’t worry about tights unless it’s going to be cold. Boots sound good and a big jacket. Perfect low key dress I think. It’s a bit misleading on the model as they focus on the heels, boobs, hips bum, but on a short size 14, this is perfect and not in your face sexy at all. Well done, hope the date goes well!!

Sidebeforeself · 06/02/2024 22:07

Love the dress but would hang back on the jewellery . Lots of jewellery and fishnets and biker jacket is trying too hard.

Sidebeforeself · 06/02/2024 22:08

But just seen its from Boohoo 😢

halfpasteleven · 06/02/2024 22:14

Love it! I think it's perfect for the type of first date you're heading out on and if you feel comfortable you'll be relaxed and confident which can only help the date go well!
Please report back on the date too!

Squeekachu · 06/02/2024 22:17

I don't agree that it's too much. As @Wictc points out, on my body type and styled with chunky DM style boots and a biker the dress isn't going to look as glam as it does on the model in the pictures.

Will reconsider the fishnets.

The silver jewellery is my many piercings which are staying put!

We're meeting at 3pm and in all likelihood (and based on our chemistry and phone calls so far 🤭) will likely stay out into the evening so it's not a quick lunch and then home thing.

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idontlikealdi · 06/02/2024 22:19

Love it, wouldn't do fishnets personally, i would go bare legged with the boots

StarlightLady · 07/02/2024 08:16

idontlikealdi · 06/02/2024 22:19

Love it, wouldn't do fishnets personally, i would go bare legged with the boots

I wouldn’t go for bare legs personally. I don’t think cold blue bare legs work in February. Save that ‘til springtime, but not the blue version.

’Hope it goes well OP and your date appreciates the effort made.

boredybored · 07/02/2024 08:18

I'd wear with with flat chunky boots and no tights or plain . It's too much otherwise in my opinion but you do you if that's what makes you happy.

crew2022 · 07/02/2024 08:19

I think it's quite smart for a street food market