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Not buying clothes 2024

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Nonewclothes2024 · 14/12/2023 18:16

I need to stop buying clothes.
I have far too many.
I feel overwhelmed deciding what to wear every day.
I wear a uniform to work.
I have deleted all shopping apps.
I am unsubscribing from shop e mails.

Anyone else ?

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Cantonet · 15/11/2024 12:17

I've done terribly the last few months & probably need to be thrown off this thread. My main issues are the fact I've lost 15 kg & I'm down a size or two & yes, I'm an autumn colourway. So the colours this year are great. And I have a Tk Maxx Cashmere obsession. Plus Plantar Fasciitis has also meant I've had to buy 'comfort' shoes. Who knew they would be so expensive !

So my aims are now to eBay the too big clothes & recoup some money. @Netcam you can definitely eBay your trousers. It's much easier to do it now.

Netcam · 15/11/2024 21:26

Cantonet · 15/11/2024 12:17

I've done terribly the last few months & probably need to be thrown off this thread. My main issues are the fact I've lost 15 kg & I'm down a size or two & yes, I'm an autumn colourway. So the colours this year are great. And I have a Tk Maxx Cashmere obsession. Plus Plantar Fasciitis has also meant I've had to buy 'comfort' shoes. Who knew they would be so expensive !

So my aims are now to eBay the too big clothes & recoup some money. @Netcam you can definitely eBay your trousers. It's much easier to do it now.

That's amazing @Cantonet, well done for the weight loss.

I know what you mean about comfort shoes. I like to think I don't have plantar fasciitis anymore because of my shoes. I bought a couple of pairs of Finn Comfort ankle boots from Germany this year, had to pay customs charges and return a third pair, which was expensive and a big hassle. But worth it, hoping they will last for years. Have you tried any Finn Comfort?

Great plan to sell the too big clothes. I might do the same if I have the inspiration. Just always feel like I can't be bothered to sort it out at the weekend after a busy week at work.

Cantonet · 16/11/2024 13:34

@Netcam I've actually bought a couple of Joya pairs, only because they were reasonably priced on eBay. The Finn Comfort ones were so pricey. I love my Oofos clogs for wearing for home slippers though.
Once you get used to listing on eBay it's pretty quick to do. I used to do a few every Sunday. It's the best day to list apparently. And a sunny day makes all the difference to the quality of the pictures.

IndianSummer78 · 16/11/2024 14:46

I've bought more than I'd have liked to but I've bought a lot less than 2023 so it's good progress. Purchases were more considered, far fewer mistakes were made (which is a big deal since I never return anything).

I've really cemented my sense of style, what I like, what works for my body, what my colour palette should be. That last one was hard because most colours suit me and I've ended up with a wardrobe that doesn't all match because of it. It was more like I have several separate wardrobes in different colour schemes. Whilst jewel tones suit my skin tone they also make the clothes seem overpowering on my small frame, so I've decided no more jewel tones. Instead of pastels I'm going to stick to lighter, muted, faded versions of the autumnal colours that suit me best, so they match with everything else. Ecru, cream, tan, lavender and French navy suit me, look polished and slide seamlessly into the rest of my wardrobe. White, charcoal, most blues, purple and black do not.

My new criteria for purchases isn't
"do I like it?", it's
"can I wear it to the supermarket?" because that's the level of formality in my life. So lots more basics bought and lots of far-too-fancy-for-the-supermarket stuff left on the shelves. Slowly my wardrobe is looking more like I can grab any outfit and it'll be suitable for anything I might do that day, which is a useful improvement on having to consider what I'm doing before I get dressed of a morning and possibly change clothes later if I change my plans.

Successfully stopped buying anything that's similar to something I already have, unless I'm going to get rid of the other version for some reason. Also worked on accepting my current body and weeding out anything that isn't comfortable or doesn't fit me right now. Very little has been kept in case I lose weight, only those items that made me look amazing, it's about one bagful and they're kept separate from the rest of my wardrobe. Lots of mistake purchases have been culled from my wardrobe too. Overall more has gone out than come in, which was my aim.

This wasn't really about finances or the environment for me, it was about reclaiming space in my home and getting my shopping addiction under control. I'm really happy with the progress made on both counts. I've been doing similar with other areas of life too. I don't think no-buy, or even low-buy, is realistic for me. I'd like to get to a place though where I have normal levels of stuff and where I'm consistently doing one-in-one-out, having an end of season declutter and that's enough to keep on top of it all. I'd like to start saving instead of spending all I have available too. My wardrobe is looking way more cohesive than it ever has and I feel I've reached a place generally now where I'm set up for a good year next year, although I shall keep decluttering and keep working on my spending.

Netcam · 16/11/2024 19:01

Cantonet · 16/11/2024 13:34

@Netcam I've actually bought a couple of Joya pairs, only because they were reasonably priced on eBay. The Finn Comfort ones were so pricey. I love my Oofos clogs for wearing for home slippers though.
Once you get used to listing on eBay it's pretty quick to do. I used to do a few every Sunday. It's the best day to list apparently. And a sunny day makes all the difference to the quality of the pictures.

How are you getting on with the Joya? I've had my Finn Comfort Ikebukuro since 2017 and they're still looking great. They're expensive, but so comfortable and should last for years.

Nonewclothes2024 · 16/11/2024 20:35

I have caved unfortunately. BUT a lot less than last year.

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dayslikethese1 · 17/11/2024 10:25

I think I've got a better handle on what I like and will actually wear now. As someone said above, clothes for my actual life and not a fictional one where I'm continuously at fancy parties😂

Cantonet · 17/11/2024 10:31

@Netcam I really like them. I bought these Joya burgundy trainers attached as I have a burgundy beanie, bag & scarf for Winter. I also have burgundy Adidas flatform trainers that I can switch in when 'comfort' shoes are not essential.
The second Joya pair are a more practical pair of waterproof walking boots which need to be worn in a bit.

Not buying clothes 2024
D20 · 17/11/2024 10:50

I’ve got to own up to a few more purchases. I have filled up my 24 in 24 now but will make a couple of exceptions for sale items that are on my list.

I’ve not been perfect but have certainly bought more second hand and ethical brands and the number of returns have been drastically reduced. I thought I would have reduced my number so I’m a bit disappointed.

Some of the things I spent a lot of time deliberating over haven’t been worn as much as much as I thought (I thought the navy jumper would be on repeat but in reality I have the wrong coloured cat). Some impulse buys (sweatshirt when I haven’t worn one since school days) have been worn a lot, which has surprised me. I have also dug out some things from years gone by for passing trends (brown leather jacket and red jumper notably).

Another one guilty of buying for my fantasy life (when I don’t feel the cold as much).

HelenHywater · 25/11/2024 08:12

I also caved a bit after a good start - buying myself some clothes/shoes for my birthday, for a summer holiday trip and a work jacket. Oh and some jeans (due to weight gain bleurgh).

So not as much as last year by a long way and have managed to lose the almost obsessive looking at clothes online.

Haven't bought anything in October or November so far and won't buy anything in December apart from Christmas presents.

After some, erm, mindful, sales purchases in January I'll do the same next year - give myself a chance to buy summer clothes for my birthday in May but otherwise I'm going to abstain from buying clothes.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 25/11/2024 08:34

I decided to buy less but buy better 😇

I only managed the buy better part 🤦‍♀️

CeejayT01 · 25/11/2024 14:59

^ Exactly the same as above- perhaps slightly less buying, much better quality… BUT now I have a thing for replacing every current item clothing, home, storage solutions for that better quality 🤣 Maybe once that’s done I will stop?

moimichme · 08/12/2024 07:54

I've been very disciplined and strict this year, and I'm currently at 15 items including gifts I was given (DH bought me running shoes and 2 tops for my birthday in February). The majority of items was secondhand, with only 6 new (the gifts above + shoes/boots that replaced like for like - I walk everywhere). So I'm pleased overall. DH has been asked to get me a pair of pyjamas for Christmas, which would be 16 total, but that replaces one that wore out this year.

When I was tempted to shop - especially in springtime and the autumn - I went to charity shops to find the same/similar item. E.g. a fake suede skirt, found one in a lovely lilac that would have been ££ new. It helps that I've kept good track of what I wear and what I have in the Whering app. I can usually resist a new jacket or bag if I see how many nice ones I already have at home!

And one in, one (or more) out has started to become a way of life. I'm tired of having random clutter and items we don't use/wear. Coming from a low-level hoarder household, I'm proud of myself for that. Hoping to keep going with good habits in 2025!

WandsOut · 08/12/2024 08:42

I'm in @moimichme
I don't need anything this year now but I really should keep reminding myself of that.

Cyclingmummy1 · 08/12/2024 08:48

I thought I'd need another pair of trousers for school as one pair was absolutely finished but I've managed perfectly well without. I've enough winter wear to see me through to retirement 😆

WonderingWanda · 08/12/2024 09:02

I hate shopping and don't buy lots but one thing I do which helps me feel like I have a whole new wardrobe is to bag up seasonal clothing and store it in the loft till its time. So I have a couple of bags of winter jumpers and dark jeans, thicker trousers and scarves which come out in the autumn. I have all my summer dresses, shorts, summery tops and sandals in another bag or two. When I swap over it always feels like a wardrobe refresh. And I can do a quick check of what's worn out, doesn't fit, totally out of date and can plan to just buy one or two nice items to replace for that season. For example this year I've chucked out a coat which was too small and asked dh for a replacement for Christmas. I also threw out my bobbly old Christmas jumper which was at least 10 years old and am going to get a new one. The main things I replace tend to be underwear, basic tops and t shirts and pyjamas because they get so much wear.

HelenHywater · 08/12/2024 10:43

I think I probably have fewer than 15 new things too. I have bought (ordered) a jumper in the Black Friday sale, but it is from a sustainable wool place so I feel it aligns with my new approach to clothes buying. I want to buy sustainable and put style over fashion. I'm also hoping to stick to these habits next year.

Have bought Christmas jumpers for my dc from Vinted this year. Haven't bought any Christmas outfits as I have lots from previous years that I only wore once or twice. I do have a (short) list of things of things I want to replace in the winter sales in January including new bras, but I do feel quite free of my previous almost-obsession with clothes shopping.

Throughthebluebells · 08/12/2024 11:59

LouisaMayAlcott · 01/01/2024 16:33

I've seen this on just the right day! I really need to join in if I may, I wear the same stuff day in day out (wfh) and just have to look smart a few times a year. And yet I have tons of clothes for those few smart occasions. I absolutely do not need anymore clothes and it would be good to save some money this year!

This is me! The proportions in my wardrobe are all wrong and I have lots of clothes that I keep 'just in case'. I really need to slim it down but it seems such a waste to get rid of it all as I will never be able to afford to replace most of the items.

henlake7 · 08/12/2024 19:13

I've been a disaster this year for clothes buying but I was replacing my entire wardrobe due to weight loss so it kinda had to be done!
But I did get an awful lot of bargains from Vinted and sales so didn't spend as much as I could have.

If there is a thread for 2025 i will Def be there though. I have more then enough now, i just need to learn to shop my wardrobe and plan out some outfits.

Netcam · 08/12/2024 21:22

henlake7 · 08/12/2024 19:13

I've been a disaster this year for clothes buying but I was replacing my entire wardrobe due to weight loss so it kinda had to be done!
But I did get an awful lot of bargains from Vinted and sales so didn't spend as much as I could have.

If there is a thread for 2025 i will Def be there though. I have more then enough now, i just need to learn to shop my wardrobe and plan out some outfits.

Similar situation for me, although I didn't replace the whole wardrobe, just trousers really. But found some excuses to buy other things too. I'm planning a no buy 2025. It would be nice to share 'shop my wardrobe' experiences, might help with being restrained and appreciating what we have.

Mystro202 · 31/12/2024 15:21

Did anyone get reeled in by the sales?! (I got some stuff in Next for myself and some for dcs in next sizes)

Cantonet · 31/12/2024 15:58

I did a £150 sales order at Uniqlo & unexpectedly kept it all. Apart from that I did no sale shopping for me but bought my daughter's Xmas PJ's & my son's underpants & pjs.
I'm restarting my minimal buy on the new 2025 thread. Netcam I think ways of shopping your wardrobe is a great idea. I'm always happy to post my Whering outfits but have been criticised for them in the past...

HelenHywater · 31/12/2024 16:06

I have ordered a couple of things in the Toast sale but probably will send them back.

I'm looking at some loungewear but otherwise am not tempted by the sales.

Netcam · 31/12/2024 16:43

Cantonet · 31/12/2024 15:58

I did a £150 sales order at Uniqlo & unexpectedly kept it all. Apart from that I did no sale shopping for me but bought my daughter's Xmas PJ's & my son's underpants & pjs.
I'm restarting my minimal buy on the new 2025 thread. Netcam I think ways of shopping your wardrobe is a great idea. I'm always happy to post my Whering outfits but have been criticised for them in the past...

I'll join you with Whering App shopping from the wardrobe pictures for a new 2025 thread.

This year has been a no buy fail, made worse by some Brora purchases from the John Lewis post Christmas sale.

But today was the last day I had permitted myself to order anything until 2026 and I didn't, so that's a start.

I've unsubscribed from all online clothes/bags/shoes shops.

Now I'm going to love the clothes I have.

I think my upcoming 55th birthday in January is causing a bit of a clothing (late) mid life crisis in an attempt to defy aging with some attractive clothes.

But I keep telling myself it could be worse, at least I'm not planning to cash in all my pension funds to buy a Ferrari.

moimichme · 03/01/2025 14:01

That sounds fun if we can share ideas and inspiration from our own wardrobes. My outfits are often quite boring, but I don't care if ppl criticise - that says more about them than me - I'm too old now and I know what I like, even if others don't agree!

Has someone made a 2025 thread that I've missed...?

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