Sometimes we run out of ‘sensibleness.’
i thought I was going to be a very fit old woman. I was a swimmer and hiker all my life, until I hit my mid 50s and developed a lifelong disabling illness so I struggled to keep fit - I’ve pretty much thrown in the towel now. Then I developed a thyroid problem which necessitated RAI which effectively kills the thyroid; and it’s been a down hill battle weight wise ever since.
Unfortunately, even with the best of intentions things don’t work out as we planned and we can lose control, or some degree of it, over our bodies.
@GoodnightGentlemen your mother sounds wonderful. A fashion maverick. A stuffed bird on a hat with a veil!