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Fashion observations from a day people watching in London

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Unicornsaregreat · 25/02/2023 21:29

  • Lots of different styles of jeans. Still lots of skinnies, with oversized tops
  • Lots of bags like this picture
  • A very large proportion of trainers were New Balance
  • Those not in trainers mainly wore chunky flat or low heeled boots (no one in heels)
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Catmuffin · 26/02/2023 09:58

MistyMooninabluesky · 26/02/2023 06:32

Thank goodness I live in a small village deep in the countryside when you can wear whatever you like without being criticised or told the middle aged women look shit
Here it’s practical clothing all the way; jeans, fleeces, waterproof coats, wellies and dog walking gear.

You can wear what you want in London and no one will criticise you or say you look shit. I'm middle aged and very frumpy. People really don't care like you're imagining.

jjeoreo · 26/02/2023 10:00

@Tinytigertail they have changed everything. Just having everything under your boob rather than fishing around in a handbag or even worse, rucksack for phone/keys/lipstick etc. I actually wear lipstick now because I don't forget I own any.

It's one of those tiny things that has improved my life a lot. I do have a very small life, full disclosure.

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 26/02/2023 10:01

I recall and wore cross body/bum bags in the 80s.

Recently saw a blue metallic cross body bag in Cos.

Was in Wimbledon and Mayfair recently and didn’t notice the fashion much.

My latest fashion purchase is a dusky pink pleated midi skirt and mauve cardigan with faux pearls both from Next.

Benjispruce4 · 26/02/2023 10:05

I don’t get the sleeveless, long puffa cots so many 40+ women are wearing. If it’s cold enough for a puffa, surely you want sleeves?

Benjispruce4 · 26/02/2023 10:07

My adult(22&19) DDs wear wide leg jeans that are low rise, chunky new balance or similar trainers, Columbia sheerling fleeces seem to be a fave too. It reminds me of my 90s style though more bootleg than flares then.

Maireas · 26/02/2023 10:07

Oh my goodness @CallMeVal - you're right about Paris! Plus why do they all wear grey and beige?

SoShallINever · 26/02/2023 10:09

Liverpool yesterday,
Lots of women in brightly coloured trouser suits with trainers or tailored bright blazers/jeans (not skinny) with trainers or boots. That uniqlo bag wasn't to be seen but it was a thing a couple of years back.

Then there were the out of town hen nighters, in tiny short floral summer dresses, heels and no coat, bless em, it was freezing.

Benjispruce4 · 26/02/2023 10:10

Well said @RhadamanthNemes . You can get away with anything in London more than anywhere! I love seeing different styles.

Mitfordian · 26/02/2023 10:12

CallMeVal · 26/02/2023 09:47

You forgot ‘People saying all French women are effortlessly stylish’.

Have you been to Paris lately? My best mate (old school butch lesbian) says ‘they all dress like the most boring and bland lezzer at the party’ Grin.

I lived in Paris for 8 months recently. I agree that some of the fashion tends towards the 'dull', particularly as women get older. But I loved the fact that such care and attention is paid to picking out pieces and looking after them, too. It's definitely less 'throw away'. I also love that the French retain some regard to what is 'flattering', which is currently very 'out' in the UK. Give me beautifully cut dresses and men in proper shirts any day.

BlackbeardsToast · 26/02/2023 10:14

Floisme · 25/02/2023 22:37

Nah the older generation isn't scared of flares - it's our 3rd time around.

😂😂😂

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 26/02/2023 10:17

Some absolute shite on this thread, and I suspect at least one poster is actually a 13 year old (either that or just really fucking dim).

Those under the boob bags - my very cool daughter has had one (Doc M) for several years - but surely they’d be a disaster on anybody much bigger than a B cup?

BaroldBalonz · 26/02/2023 10:21

Most of the teenagers that I see are in a schoffel gilet, checked shirts, jeans and buckler work boots or Chathams. I don't live in London.

StephenDedalus · 26/02/2023 10:21

I was in Berlin a couple of weeks ago. V cold weather while I was there so lots of puffa action everywhere. As ever it was v urban, lots of baggy jeans, trainers, dms, beanie hats, big scarves. But most people were dressed for the weather, not as much midriff outwardly on show- maybe under the coats?
Lots & lots of interesting moustaches on the young men - full on handlebars in several cases!

Benjispruce4 · 26/02/2023 10:24

@BaroldBalonz are they farmers?

Janch13 · 26/02/2023 10:25

I am mid thirties and pregnant. Maternity dressing had been an absolute minefield compared to my last pregnancy 3 years ago. The fashion is SO unflattering. Even not pregnant I am a short, curvy girl. I consider myself pretty trendy but there is no way I can wear crop tops, leggings as trousers and puffs jackets, just does absolutely nothing for me an only enhances the areas I’m looking to minimise. Anyone that watched MAFS, pregnant Martha’s maternity style has made me absolutely wince of late. Is this really wants in now??

LimeCheesecake · 26/02/2023 10:33

One thing I miss about not working in the city anymore is the people watching for small details - so not the items themselves, but how they are put together.

I do remember suddenly seeing the French tuck look everywhere and how much more flattering it was as a way to wear t shirts and shirts.

things like socks being something we now show, when I noticed the big collared shirts were being worn with dungarees, rather than smart trousers.

I miss seeing how lots of people put those items together and getting an idea for a trend or seeing people with my body shape and trying to work out if it looked good or not!

AtillasHuns · 26/02/2023 10:38

safeplanet · 26/02/2023 07:59

But is London a world leader now?
Is it worth trying to fit the trend if the trend is a bit naff compared to what is considered stylish internationally?
Just wondering why London is soooo great.

It certainly used to be. It always had more individuality than other cities. It may be different know.

The lack of individuality is noticeable.

A couple weeks ago I was at a ‘trendy’ chain restaurant in Angel for dinner and a large table for a birthday was set up nearby. I arrived before they did and it was fascinating watching them come in one by one looking almost identical. Of the 12 there were 8 women who seemed 25-30’s. They all looked like these photos; jeans or cargos in varying shades of cream, except one who was wearing wide blue. Tops were neutral mock neck jumpers with the half tuck. Shoes either chunky white trainers or DM’s. Very long oversized camel coats. Cross body bag. Sleek buns or flowy waves.

Fashion observations from a day people watching in London
Fashion observations from a day people watching in London
TheOGCCL · 26/02/2023 10:38

In London if that matters and what I observe is a society much less interested in dressing for each other and much more interested in wearing either the most comfortable things available and/or a very narrow range of things decreed fashionable. My grandmother, who is over a hundred, bemoaned the casualisation of dressing before the pandemic and this accelerated dramatically during it. You see this looking back at old photos, everyone looks so smart. In one way it’s great people don’t feel they have to worry about their appearance so much, and the loss of heels is brilliant for equality, but we do lose something in the process and of course people are still worrying about getting the right trainers and brands.

I observe two broad types of dress, one is a minimalist look, plain, neutral colours, wool coords or tracksuits or leggings worn with long coats and big trainers. Often quite oversized. The other is a ‘white stuff’ vibe, so colour, pattern, sometimes quirkiness, worn to size. In the main younger people wear the former and older people the latter. I think this is partly because we already become more invisible as we age and so wearing neutral things that everyone else is wearing doesn’t help. We are also less bothered about standing out, in fact we might seek it. Whereas younger people often want the complete opposite.

Older women in the main channel a neater, more matched look, we have many years of being told to seek out what is flattering. This also helps younger people distinguish themselves. Older woman in the main don’t want baggy jeans and crop tops, with crop tops are particularly unpopular. But the interesting thing is that not all young people wearing this look are tall and slim, some of them actually look pretty ‘frumpy’ if you look at them, it’s just they haven’t been conditioned to worry about this and as pps have said it’s so much about confidence.

I’m generalising of course.

NatashaDancing · 26/02/2023 10:39

LimeCheesecake · 26/02/2023 10:33

One thing I miss about not working in the city anymore is the people watching for small details - so not the items themselves, but how they are put together.

I do remember suddenly seeing the French tuck look everywhere and how much more flattering it was as a way to wear t shirts and shirts.

things like socks being something we now show, when I noticed the big collared shirts were being worn with dungarees, rather than smart trousers.

I miss seeing how lots of people put those items together and getting an idea for a trend or seeing people with my body shape and trying to work out if it looked good or not!

I always thought the French tuck looked silly, contrived and trying too hard. I think "trying too hard" or obvious "trying too hard" was mentioned earlier as something the in crowd don't do

MidnightMeltdown · 26/02/2023 10:41

I wear leggings and joggers at home, but I wouldn't wear them out unless doing sport. However, I tend to be a size 12 on the bottom these days, and I just don't think that they're flattering.

If I was a size 8 then I might wear leggings out, but it really makes me cringe when I'm walking behind someone wearing leggings, or super tight skinny jeans, and a top that doesn't cover their backside! It just looks so awful IMO

Cocolapew · 26/02/2023 10:48

I follow one of the London style things on Instagram and I'm really taken aback how shit it is.
Everything looks too big, baggy jeans flapping halfway up the leg, chunky trainers and massive coats. Everyone looks the same.
The 90s had shit fashion at the time, it's not any better now.
Even worse is the New York one. Its full of people who appear to have got dressed by dumper diving in the dark.

NatashaDancing · 26/02/2023 10:48

MrsFezziwig · 26/02/2023 01:46

Not too matchy matchy, too contrived, it's best to put your own spin/identity/fun on your outfits.

If you're too identikit....it's naff

So how does that tally with everyone who is anyone wearing the same black leggings and white socks?

(It’s ok, I’m northern so I can say what I like) 🙄

It doesn't tally- same as the OP's list of people she observed basically all wearing the same thing.

SicParvisMagna · 26/02/2023 10:51

This thread has been an eye opener 😳 I live on the Essex coast where most of the population lives in tracksuits. I live in joggers, h&m t shirts, probably with a Tesco jumper over the top. But that’s mainly because my weight seems to fluctuate so much that jeans quickly become impossible to do up, leaving me in tears. I’m 38, barely do my hair and make up is a thing of the past. I’m too young to dress so crappily in honesty but maybe it’s the depression talking or an age thing but I just don’t give a shit. I’m warm and comfy. I’m 5’3 and a size 14. I should for my age and height be around a 10-12. My legs are ridiculously short, I might as well not have any. I’ve never ever ever worn anything in my life that I’ve looked at myself and thought wow. You look beautiful. That flatters you, suits you and you look incredible. Even on my wedding day.
Half the brands on this thread I’ve never even heard of 😂 If I had a few grand I’d love someone to take me shopping and sort me out. Alas that isn’t going to happen so unless a miracle happens I will continue to still chav about in my joggers and admire everyone else who seems to be able to wear anything and look good 😊

Renoir56 · 26/02/2023 10:51

I'm in London. We're not all wearing the same things - there is every sort of style out there!

Interestingly according to the Sunday Times Style
Magazine today Skinny Jeans are back. Not jeggings though!

safeplanet · 26/02/2023 10:56

skinning jeans will be back as 00s fashion is on its way.