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Can you end a lifetime's search for lipstick for cool toned people?

35 replies

BornLippy82 · 23/06/2022 13:24

Please help me find the perfect lip colour after a lifetime of searching. 🙏 I'm Caucasian with fairly tanned skin, which I think has a cool undertone. My hair is dark brown and my eyes green. Due to colouring I've been told (by a colour expert) to always wear cool tones next to my skin, as warm tones make me look like death (my quote not hers!). This is definitely the case with clothes, so white suits me but cream looks awful.

Similarly with lip colour, anything with a hint of autumn looks terrible on me, any hint of orange. Blueish toned pinks are good. As I've aged (40) very dark colours aren't great either.

I've had a look in Boots and Space NK but everything seems to be rusty, orangey, muted browny shades, dark plum etc. even Pillow Talk by Charlotte Tilbury which is famously meant to suit everybody looks awful on me.

Anyone of similar colouring got any recommendations? TIA

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MsOllie · 23/06/2022 13:29

Stila stay all day might work, I wear patina and baci

PAFMO · 23/06/2022 13:30

Dior 999 red.

MsOllie · 23/06/2022 13:30

Actually I forgot this brand
You can filter by undertone, each lipstick shows on various skin tones, and they do a matching nail Polish

https://www.emolyne.com/product-category/lipsticks/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7PK43cnD-AIV2OvtCh29kg4bEAAYASAAEgKBPDBwE

Chocolatecoatedkettlebell · 23/06/2022 13:56

I Also look dreadful in pillow talk
My favourite everyday is Mac Faux
My favourite bold / red is Tom Ford Jasmin Rouge
My favourite tinted balm is Bobby Brown Jelly Stick in Tahiti

LightOfAThousandStars · 23/06/2022 14:02

CT Secret Salma, Max Mehr & Faux, Rimmel Vintage Pink, look for the cooler tones

DinosaursEatMan · 23/06/2022 14:06

Mac Ruby Woo and Flat Out Fabulous work for me. I’m very cool toned and look like death in anything with a hint of a warm undertone.

DailySheetWasher · 23/06/2022 14:10

Funny, I'm warm toned and was unsuccessfully scouring Boots the other day for anything that didn't go pink once applied!

Clinique Black Honey is pretty famous and can be a wash of tint or quite a rich berry if you layer it up a bit.

DailySheetWasher · 23/06/2022 14:11

I also recommend the MAC website for a virtual try on of all their shades.

Cotswoldmama · 23/06/2022 14:16

I also recommend Stila Baci. I think I have similar colouring to you dark brown hair, green eyes. I would describe my skin tone as olive and weirdly I would say it's sometimes cool but sometime warm toned!

PressPauseontheMenopause · 23/06/2022 14:19

I am same colouring as you and this is my all time fave - a gloss rather than a lipstick which I prefer:

tropicskincare.com/products/lip-glaze?variant=19132859383881

pepperaunt · 23/06/2022 14:35

I feel you (Pillow Talk looks awful on me!). Also, every lipstick seems to turn orange on my lips. I have finally found a lovely bluish-pink - Cosmetics a La Carte Misty Rose. I’m fairly pale, though

123ZYX · 23/06/2022 14:37

Another vote for MAC faux, and I agree with using their website to try them on a photo/ using your camera - I find it to be quite accurate

WrinklesShminkles · 23/06/2022 14:41

MAC Up the Amp looks scarily fuchsia in the tube but you can apply one layer to get a cool rose colour or several for a bold colour.

I find it really difficult to find cool shades - everything seems warm toned at the moment. Although you have to factor in how shades seem to change colour against different skin tones and lip colours. I'm not sure Black Honey is cool, unless they've changed the colour since I was young recently.

LadyOfTheCanyon · 23/06/2022 15:30

I'm a cool toned blonde ( naturally a brunette , but grey happened) with blue/grey eyes and also look shit in Pillow Talk. Why do we fall for all this 'suits everyone' nonsense?? Black Honey also looks dire on me, it goes a weird muddy colour.

Raspberries, blue toned pinks and pinky Corals all look good on me, even though I have quite ruddy toned skin.

Nars Schiap and Niagara both work really well with my skin.

The other thing that made a massive difference was whitening my teeth. So many more lipstick shades look good now they're not battling with warm toned teeth!

SandyWedges · 23/06/2022 16:51

They should stop saying pillow talk looks good on everyone. I don't know anyone who likes it apart from one lady at work and tbh I think jt looks shit on her too.

ParadiseLaundry · 23/06/2022 17:12

SandyWedges · 23/06/2022 16:51

They should stop saying pillow talk looks good on everyone. I don't know anyone who likes it apart from one lady at work and tbh I think jt looks shit on her too.

I totally agree! I actually think Rimmels Asia is a lot more universally flattering (but even then it doesn't suit everyone).

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 23/06/2022 17:15

Rimmel Asia is ok. Maybelline have a lot of cool tones.

JellyBellyNelly · 23/06/2022 17:17

Go to the House of Color website and check out their cool toned lipsticks.

Thelikelylass · 23/06/2022 17:20

Try Charlotte tilbury lost cherry (pinky red) and coral kiss.

ElizabethinherGermanGarden · 23/06/2022 17:22

It's not a proper lipstick but one of the most flattering colours I've found is Mavala lip balm in berry. It's dark purple in the tube but obviously as a balm it's light and subtle. Makes me look much healthier on limited make up days!

Thelikelylass · 23/06/2022 17:22

Pillow talk is horrible on me but Rimmel Asia (mentioned above) is lovely for cooler days!

MissStarry · 23/06/2022 17:23

I also came on to recommend Mac - I use flat out fabulous (purple pink), candy yum yum (pink), Russian red, violetta (blue/purple) and all fired up (pink/red)

For a neutral I wear Mac please me.
Def going to try some of the others recommended on here 😍💋

Wilma55 · 23/06/2022 17:31

Cool is either summer or winter

www.houseofcolour.co.uk/shop

JellyBellyNelly · 23/06/2022 17:47

Wilma55 · 23/06/2022 17:31

Cool is either summer or winter

www.houseofcolour.co.uk/shop

Thank you. I forgot to mention it.