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Plus size summer wedding guest outfit

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BaffledMum22 · 15/03/2022 17:50

Looking for a dress to wear as a wedding guest this summer. It’s a fancy wedding on a very fancy estate and we’ll be attending the whole day.

Here are the specifics:

  • Apple shaped size 20, G cup boobs
  • Mid brown hair and pale-ish skin
  • No green or purple please
  • Hate my belly & im not a big fan of the tops of my arms so having them covered would be nice but I can live with them not being 🤣 (the arms that is, not the belly - it must be covered! 🤣)
  • it’s my first “event” that I’ll be attending with my toddler after all these lockdowns so the more “chasing the child” friendly it is, the better 🤣
  • I have a decent shoe collection so can probably find shoes/bag to go with most things

Budget up to £250 absolute maximum, but obviously would be happier spending much less if possible 😊 work your magic for me Mumsnet 🤞🏼❤️

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DelphiniumBlue · 15/03/2022 17:56

Lots of nice dresses on Pretty Kitty prettykittyfashion.co.uk/collections/dresses/products/copy-of-green-autumn-floral-print-cap-sleeve-crossover-top-swing-dress-
They are really flattering on me - 18/20 fat tummy and waist disappeared a few years ago.

Emily29 · 15/03/2022 17:59

A wrap around dress might be quite nice? Something like this? www.inthestyle.com/curve-jac-jossa-powder-blue-pleated-wrap-midi-dress

Wagsandclaws · 15/03/2022 20:19

This is m and s and would look lovely dressed up as well as being super comfortable.

The shirring on the bust means it would flow over your tummy. I have lost weight so now a 16/18 but still a solid apple shape and i think this would be lovely on you.

Plus size summer wedding guest outfit
Plus size summer wedding guest outfit
supercatlady · 15/03/2022 20:35

This would be lovely with a bolero
prettykittyfashion.co.uk/collections/50s-swing-dresses/products/mint-floral-summer-swing-dress

BaffledMum22 · 15/03/2022 20:39

@DelphiniumBlue I’ve never heard of that site, I’ll have a good look, thank you 😊

@Emily29 not sure about either of those specific ones - maybe something with a pattern would be better 🤔 but I like the wrap style!

@Wagsandclaws I’ll have a look on M&S, thanks. I always forget about them! Do you have a link to the specific dress you mentioned?

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BaffledMum22 · 15/03/2022 20:42

@supercatlady I’ve just had a wee look at that site but I feel like the dresses are a bit too retro for my taste 🤔 I’m not hugely into the vintage style. I should have also said in my OP, I’m 30 if that’s relevant 😊

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Nsky · 15/03/2022 20:50

Phase eight have lovely stuff

FinallyHere · 15/03/2022 20:57

https://www.bombshellhq.com

Enjoy xx

supercatlady · 15/03/2022 21:07

This is a good site too
www.scarlettandjo.com/collections/plus-size-occasion-dresses

BaffledMum22 · 16/03/2022 05:10

Thanks again all 😊 will have a look at all your suggestions!!

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atz333 · 16/03/2022 05:19

Asos Curve has some beautiful dresses. I bought a maxi dress in navy for a special occasion from there and it covered my arms, it had a beautiful flow to it so the stomach was well hidden. It just fit really well and still looked classy. I'd definitely recommend their dresses.

BaffledMum22 · 16/03/2022 12:05

@atz333

Asos Curve has some beautiful dresses. I bought a maxi dress in navy for a special occasion from there and it covered my arms, it had a beautiful flow to it so the stomach was well hidden. It just fit really well and still looked classy. I'd definitely recommend their dresses.
Thanks @atz333 😊 I’ve had a few bits from ASOS curve and found their sizes to be a bit all over the place! That was jeans and jackets though so might just have been unlucky 😊 will definitely have a look at their dresses!
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QuantumHypothesis · 17/03/2022 20:10

@BaffledMum22

Thanks for this thread. I’m taking notes as I’m similar size and build to you and have two late spring weddings to go to. Not related to each other, so hoping to wear the same outfit to both.

BaffledMum22 · 19/03/2022 05:03

[quote QuantumHypothesis]@BaffledMum22

Thanks for this thread. I’m taking notes as I’m similar size and build to you and have two late spring weddings to go to. Not related to each other, so hoping to wear the same outfit to both.[/quote]
@QuantumHypothesis always good if you can wear the same outfit for multiple weddings 😊 let me know if you find anything 😊

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Rina66 · 19/03/2022 05:58

Next do this dress in about 6 colours and designs, including a spotty one, tall and petite options up to a size 20, regular up to a size 26- I've seen it in store and it is really lovely. Might be worth a try?

www.next.co.uk/g2813s1/M47959#M47959

StubbleTurnips · 19/03/2022 06:52

www.oohbetty.co.uk/product/red-leopard-1-2-1-2-chloe-dress/

Lovely dresses on Oh Betty, add a pair of lulu hun heels and you’re away. Just bear in mind they’re made to order so it takes 2 weeks before it comes through.

NellietheNumpty · 19/03/2022 07:57

Another fan of Oohbetty here. They will make to your measurements and are lovely.

Filterphobia · 19/03/2022 08:12

Link fail Blush

Filterphobia · 19/03/2022 08:27

Apologies it hadn’t even posted 🙈
Let’s try again.
www.lovedrobe.co.uk/lovedrobe-anaya-with-love-recycled-desert-rose-wrap-midi-wrap-dress-with-sash-belt-pl4-1648-drse
www.lovedrobe.co.uk/lovedrobe-anaya-with-love-recycled-blue-faux-wrap-pleated-midaxi-dress-pl4-1646-cblu-1
Lovedrobe have some similar wrap dresses to that in the style one.
I’ve bought from them before for a wedding. They have some lovely things on the site.

waltzingparrot · 19/03/2022 16:43

Anything here?

liquorishonline.com/collections/wedding-guest-dresses

HoliHormonalTigerlilly · 19/03/2022 19:51

[quote Rina66]Next do this dress in about 6 colours and designs, including a spotty one, tall and petite options up to a size 20, regular up to a size 26- I've seen it in store and it is really lovely. Might be worth a try?

www.next.co.uk/g2813s1/M47959#M47959[/quote]
Love this!

londonmummy1966 · 19/03/2022 23:46

Marina RInaldi is a great brand for plus sizes (its a membe of the MaxMara stable). New is probably out of your budget but ebay is usually a good shot

www.ebay.co.uk/itm/255124617109?hash=item3b669cb795:g:qgAAAOSwZb5hNn3V

www.ebay.co.uk/itm/202590139541?_trkparms=ispr%3D1&hash=item2f2b503495:g:wAAAAOSwCPZcAbS0&amdata=enc%3AAQAGAAACoPYe5NmHp%252B2JMhMi7yxGiTJkPrKr5t53CooMSQt2orsSjVt3vLKCbov98Z19qhuwY0PP%252Bv8BpEt7madOzOfLCAEtSxT%252BxlHDm95UqJ1e35f4lpKCjOLtaTugkJ4HsxNIE5kbVBmshKDFUay3oEKzI%252BPR0RlFUlSJqLTErO9NNcOEhhixGbLYhKNL%252BOqc3uP3pNIYw0%252Fd9%252BHPQuhfzjB%252F9nKoNURkVSppMt1ObmCimOmPIo2jTBvoXGAVyJorK%252BztXzpOVpjFpcNuEBWu5%252BdKUk%252Brc6gzz9LcMg24A9e57o2fz4tXkY9iOaKTrXwHpQbUJnFC0zBz2e%252BN4DTBxQ61byYkuL%252BCPl%252B9cb8jzvT4dkGM0xX8gMdPj475ZtcsBV0VHEH9w8QGfkVsoZAbYwQ2DAu%252FSQF7%252B28YT2RZhuoOlhU9lgI8Wz0mvHLxrR365E6xN0MoNT51jr01dF%252F42A1%252BA3If0dcdDIgRVWxYpBjrMtqfH%252FAo7y7l0CnKK9fqBhfYnmRL46v0QXtexehD%252B6Q2oobl%252BbYsE%252B4UbbVcz6YKj29HWJHssNNB%252B7fGsFm5oHgxKDPHkDa4lvL5zRAa3TaOvidc8FJONVjQ8nlOvu%252B8kYG7KBNXx4%252BsEbIti%252FNz1xrf4REZlQDeeCX8LJVVFWSI5wookTMmtNSDQBYygrcmcOMIGRAqSycDIvLeJDLtjYbBPkYoFcH5m1u%252BC0S7V6nfR9dRpNhc1ZfP5TFVEOIDMqdIk9%252FkTw9PKwW4Go56QEIcKjPPxFfc0MnxiQZ4HVQZvcKQVzf5YojEqXjuXPLQtRjp4fOi%252Bwc0AczIfCYa1FyxThiHj37JLAkTxzmCa9EVN8kaBnO1ZM5mj%252BkfRQIOK79l6jdZQAZIHnJm2VAv7tEvgg%253D%253D%7Cclp%3A2334524%7Ctkp%3ABFBM6pz8yPRf

www.ebay.co.uk/itm/265558461892?hash=item3dd4848dc4:g:XyEAAOSw-3diEhcm

The other thing to bear in mind is that if you see a dress you like without sleeves you can buy sleeves to go underneath like this

www.pourmoi.co.uk/products/make-a-scene-lace-arm-sleeve/