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Eternity ring help

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Ilikecheeseontoast · 14/12/2021 14:26

My husband is buying me an eternity ring for Christmas as we’ve just celebrated a milestone anniversary. My wedding and engagement rings are quite plain and minimal platinum bands (will try to upload pic) so I’m wanting a bit of sparkle! I’m at a loss as to where to start though! My engagement ring is pretty high and I wouldn’t want the rings to clash. I’m lost in a midst of settings and styles. Can anyone help? We have about 1-1.5k to spend! Thanks in advance!

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Ilikecheeseontoast · 14/12/2021 14:28

This is a clearer pic

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FlipperSkipper · 14/12/2021 14:31

I have a plain platinum band and solitaire engagement ring and went for a channel set platinum full eternity ring. I really like the way they look together.

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Ilikecheeseontoast · 14/12/2021 14:41

Oh yes that looks lovely! Thanks for posting!

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rosiebl · 14/12/2021 14:55

My engagement and wedding rings are almost identical to yours. Also platinum. We got my eternity ring just a few weeks ago to celebrate the birth of our second baby.
Mine is an half eternity, but because my fingers are small (size i), when it was resized, it goes almost about three quarters of the way around my finger. I also prefer it to be smooth on the back so it doesn't catch on clothes, baby etc. If you are anywhere near York, I would recommend Bradley's. They are lovely. We paid £1400 for almost 1 carat of diamonds.

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rosiebl · 14/12/2021 14:59

Sorry, that should have said 1/2 carat. Bloody phone!

User2638483 · 14/12/2021 15:06

I have quite small fingers and narrow bands
I have this which I wear on the other hand generally but doesn’t go with my other rings too, I went into a local jeweller where they make them to order and asked their advice about what would work best and they showed me some examples.

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User2638483 · 14/12/2021 15:06

*does go with the other rings too

SoupDragon · 14/12/2021 15:16

I have this (although I bought it myself, it's not actually an eternity ring)

A simple platinum band with inset diamonds.

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Hoorayhenryyah · 14/12/2021 16:52

Since your engagement ring is claw set I would look at claw set half hoop eternity rings or shared/micro claw. I think they would look lovely with your rings. If you go to a jeweller they will be able to let you try them on to see what you think. I would day one that is similar width to your engagement ring and wedding ring band would be lovely. Happy shopping!

justasking111 · 14/12/2021 16:59

Go to a jeweller and try some on with your other rings my engagement ring is a crossover one so the ring design was somewhat difficult

IamGusFring · 14/12/2021 17:16

Have a look at these guys - they do great diamonds and you can jiggle with different aspects to suit your price .

www.samarajames.com/diamond-rings-menu/diamond-eternity-rings.html?ringprofile=deluxecourt&metaltype=platinum&settingstyle=channelsetting&width=showall

Aderyn21 · 14/12/2021 20:46

This is mine. Since your rings are narrow, I would go for an eternity ring that is a similar width and the same claw setting as your engagement ring. I like full eternity so that if the ring moves you still see the stones.

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Ilikecheeseontoast · 16/12/2021 16:28

Thanks all so much for taking the time to post. I went to try some on and liked the channel set ones as they seem to fit quite well with my other rings. I’m wondering whether it would be best to buy now or whether there might be sales in January. Any thoughts? Would like the biggest shiniest diamonds for my money!

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user1471548941 · 16/12/2021 16:45

Go to the Jewellery Quarter in Birmingham. We paid 1/3 of what a high street jeweller wanted for my ring of choice, even with a larger diamond. It’s insured for double what we paid!

It was a 3/4 hour drive each way for us, but a lovely day out choosing my ring/had a nice lunch and completely worth the drive for the saving we made.

prettybird · 16/12/2021 17:54

@FlipperSkipper

I have a plain platinum band and solitaire engagement ring and went for a channel set platinum full eternity ring. I really like the way they look together.

That's very similar to my (oval) solitaire plus wedding band plus eternity ring combination - only mine is yellow gold Smile

JemimaPyjamas · 16/12/2021 18:19

I love these! My wedding and engagement ring are like the OP's and a simple sparkly third band would be just lovely... One day!

Fluffycloudland77 · 16/12/2021 18:21

I bought all my jewellery from the Jewellery quarter. Or rather Dh did 😂😂😂

Ask them if they can polish your existing rings too, then the new ring won’t shout “IM NEW” & everything will sparkle.

Gazelda · 16/12/2021 18:28

I feel like we're ring twins OP and @FlipperSkipper! Slim platinum wedding band and a simple/elegant solitaire.

I'm really hoping for an eternity ring this Christmas but my neighbour has just told me that she took in a package addressed to my DH today that looked very non ring size/shape. Oh well ...

Fleur405 · 16/12/2021 18:42

I am getting an eternity ring and couldn’t find quite what I wanted so am getting one designed/made by a local jeweller. It wasn’t too expensive but makes it very special.

zucchinieggplant · 16/12/2021 18:49

Very similar to you OP, I have relatively thin, plain bands and a solitaire engagement rings. DH wanted to get me an eternity ring for a big anniversary in Oct but I am still dithering on what I want!! I am thinking of getting something made as I can't quite find what I want, but like something along the lines of the following with a pave setting.

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ItchySwissRoll · 16/12/2021 18:53

Similar engagement ring (brilliant cut, four claws) and wedding band to yours OP.

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Camii · 16/12/2021 18:53

Have you considered micro eternity rings?
I absolutely love them. No idea who or where does them. But I think one or poss two would suit your rings and look gorgeous.
Mine is a very old ring of my grandma's but I love it

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Mermaid67 · 16/12/2021 19:37

I was hoping for tips on how to get an eternity ring, I’ve had two children, my silver anniversary and next year is our 30th and I’m still waiting 😕

Aderyn21 · 16/12/2021 19:55

Tell your husband to buy you one!

postitnot · 16/12/2021 19:58

I'd quite like an eternity ring, but I work in healthcare so never even wear my engagement ring.
Think I'll treat myself to one when I retire. That's 20 odd years mind...