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Wedding guest outfit- too formal now?

62 replies

nowlook · 22/05/2021 08:52

My cousin was due to get married last June. Grand country house job probably with ice sculptures

The wedding will now take place next June in a very nice country pub with marquee. Hurray!

The outfit I bought for the original wedding now feels like it would be out of place. I'm unlikely to go to another wedding any time soon. I love the outfit (it's my colour and very flattering), but I just need to bite the bullet and flog it, don't I?

TLDR: is this too formal for a country pub wedding?

Wedding guest outfit- too formal now?
Wedding guest outfit- too formal now?
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Disfordarkchocolate · 22/05/2021 11:27

It's gorgeous. I'd still wear it. Hair up and no hat.

Elouera · 22/05/2021 11:31

Just because venue has changed to a marquee, I wouldn't suddenly change to jeans or a casual summer dress! What else would you wear?

Its lovely, but as others have said, if you have a fascinator then keep it simple. My worry would be whether it would still fit next year!

MaryTheMiddle · 22/05/2021 11:34

Just to add to the many people saying wear it, sans headgear. It's gorgeous and fine or any sort of wedding really.

Ninkanink · 22/05/2021 11:34

👋 at @nowlook!!

It’s absolutely gorgeous and I forbid you from (? That doesn’t sound right 🤔) flogging it!

Beautiful.

PurpleRainDancer · 22/05/2021 11:35

Gorgeous dress, wear and enjoy.

nowlook · 22/05/2021 11:44

Wotcha, Nink! Grin

To those asked what else I would have worn (I'm definitely going to wear it now!), floaty silk midi-dress with hair down. LK Bennett sort of thing. but not with a white background

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ditavonteesed · 22/05/2021 16:05

@nowlook it's absolutely gorgeous. And you will look amazing in it. Want to see pictures when your in it.

rjacksmiss · 22/05/2021 16:09

Of pop my hair up in a high messy pony tail and wrap a ribbon round it with that. Gorgeous!

rjacksmiss · 22/05/2021 16:09

I'd*

Mrsmophead · 22/05/2021 16:12

Absolutely stunning!! Wear it for sure.

AnneShirleysNewDress · 22/05/2021 16:12

Gorgeous! Half the fun of a wedding is getting dressed up.

nowlook · 22/05/2021 16:23

[quote ditavonteesed]@nowlook it's absolutely gorgeous. And you will look amazing in it. Want to see pictures when your in it. [/quote]
That's a deal @ditavonteesed! So strange to see you and Ninkanink out of context. It's like going on holiday and bumping into your neighbours Grin

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Egghead81 · 22/05/2021 16:24

95% of similar posts that include outfits in aghast that anyone would consider wearing

This is lovely
And it’s Wedding, we have all been dressed down for so long, you go for jt!!!

Blossomtoes · 22/05/2021 16:26

I think it’s beautiful. Please wear it.

Twickerhun · 22/05/2021 16:29

It’s beautiful. Absolutely beautiful. I’d wear that to the wedding, then dress in it for dinner every night thereafter

Cocolapew · 22/05/2021 16:29

It's lovely definitely wear it.

Shergill15 · 22/05/2021 16:45

It's lovely. Definitely still wear it!

TheDamnFoolThatShotHim · 22/05/2021 16:48

Another voice saying wear it!

Yeah, it might be a bit more formal than you would have chosen if the country pub had been the plan all along, but you can't possibly sell it or give up the chance to wear it just because plans have now changed.

It is BEAUTIFUL!

BikeRunSki · 22/05/2021 16:53

That’s gorgeous. I think it all be fine for a country pub wedding but... it’s my colour!

nowlook · 22/05/2021 17:00

@BikeRunSki

That’s gorgeous. I think it all be fine for a country pub wedding but... it’s my colour!
Yeah...I knew I sounded a bit of a tit when I said that Grin

it really is my colour though

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BikeRunSki · 22/05/2021 17:19

@nowlook, I’m not taking the Mick, that chalky blue colour really suits me!! 😊

... it matches my eyes

mrssmiling · 22/05/2021 17:23

That really is gorgeous! Not often that an outfit gets such unanimous approval! So elegant, and a beautiful colour. Agree, no hat, simple accessories....you will look stunning.

FreshFaceTime · 22/05/2021 18:45

Can you imagine having to postpone your wedding because of a pandemic and change your venue, plans, etc, etc and then all your guests feel as though they should then tone it down a bit with their outfits? I'm sure the happy couple will just be glad they finally got to tie the knot, blah, blah... but I'm also sure they'll be so thrilled if their guests go all fancy! It's a long-awaited celebration and it deserves the kind of lovely outfit you've been looking forward to wearing all this time. Go for it!

QueenPaw · 22/05/2021 18:50

Dress up! I've taken to wearing heels to the supermarket in defiance I had nowhere else to wear them Grin

Jollyholibobs · 22/05/2021 18:57

@nowlook it’s gorgeous. Definitely wear it and enjoy it.