I had a much needed post-lockdown cut last week and it looked so lovely, all choppy and blow dried. However, on trying to recreate this look after washing it myself it has settled into a Rachel. I'm a grey, nearly 50 yo with a Rachel cut. I'm no good with hair, this cut was an alternative to the bob I've had for the last 30 years. Any suggestions on what I can do to erm... look less like a 50 yo with a 90s hairdo?