Mid 30s stylish wedding

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Help me! Have family wedding coming up where all cousins are v cool... I like some floaty (cool not too girly) dresses. Size 10 but pasty, no shape. Mid 30s. The dresses online are all pastel floral...

Not sure what I’m looking for other than midi, elegant, good on pasty grey skin, not booby (have no boobs!), could be worn with a little jacket...
there was a dress on sezanne I liked but sold out.
Please help!

What colour hair do you have?
(Just asking for colour choice of dresses)

Mousy! Dark blonde but going grey

Is it this sort of stuff you like?
ASOS have loads, search wedding day guest dresses

Have you looked at Rixo or Ghost?
What sort of budget?

Budget is 100-250 sort of range... normally would do H&M, Zara but this is special and I want to feel really like I tried. Rixo etc the right sort of area but maybe too out there... any simple, pretty (not too girly), well made dresses... am not helping with a vague description! Basically I want to look rich city woman, cool mid 30s... (am not rich!)

I love those ASOS dresses! Trying to push the budget a bit here though hoping it’ll work and make me feel good!

There is 100s of designer dresses on ASOS along this style!

How about this? I absolutely love everything at comptoir des comtonniers this season.

www.comptoirdescotonniers.eu/loose-belted-maxi-dress-NATURE_5114.html

www.reiss.com/p/halterneck-pleated-midi-dress-womens-nina-in-pink/?category_id=1121&gaEeList=W%20-%20Dresses

www.reiss.com/p/printed-midi-dress-womens-eddie-in-green/?category_id=1121&gaEeList=W%20-%20Dresses

www.tedbaker.com/uk/Womens/Outlet/Clothing/Dresses/GABIE-One-shoulder-drape-midi-dress-Khaki/p/147443-KHAKI?cpkey=iwtHi4sceGfgofZDTpQHFdlymhZqw2wrak9tlZrJxtAd3B_F8C-JYbtpVyW9ODdWrhq_v6TvuZ76AaydnoC8poZt27n-66oREm27jw_D_mw~&cmpid=ppc~google~PLA~smart_shopping_uk_en_ww_high_margin~111178005776~147443-KHAKI-4~na~na~UK&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI-tH887Kf8AIVjxoGAB3RbwBBEAQYASABEgKcifD_BwE

Reformation more pricey, but excellent cut, very flattering, look expensive IMO

That ted baker is beautiful

I like the idea of something French... just because I’m worried others will wear ted baker and Reiss... but some do such small sizes, I tried one in selfridges once and it was so tight! Maybe called Maje

Wyse London have lovely stuff

Maje have a UKwebsite (uk.maje,com). This is lovely and I think you'd not see anyone else in it uk.maje.com/en/ready-to-wear/collection/dresses/120ruffine/MFPRO01557.html

Brora? www.johnlewis.com/brora-folk-floral-midi-dress-ivory/p5528560
Possibly a bit bridesmaidy

posted this on a different wedding thread yesterday, I just think it's so beautiful www.stories.com/en_gbp/clothing/dresses/kaftans/product.mulberry-silk-halter-midi-dress-orange.0958625001.html?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=210414-rejina-pyo-EU&utm_content=

Apparently dress rental is quite a thing now!

www.mywardrobehq.com/

Ted Baker and Reiss are not cool.

I'm 34, and have got a Rixo dress for 2 separate weddings this summer (1 friends 1 family).

Other brands you could look at:
Kitri London
Finery London
Omnes
Molby the Label
Sandro
Claudie Pierlot
Baum & Pferdgarten
Ganni
Palones
Needle and Thread
Reformation

Look at the Outnet for designer discounts, and Trouva/Wolf and Badger/Atterley for small brands you may not have heard of.

Reformation have some gorgeous dresses, Wolf and Badger too

This one is Ted Baker www.next.co.uk/style/st716471/487766#487766

What about Nancy Mac? Or Tallulah and Hope?

What about this: www.whistles.com/product/strappy-animal-metallic-dress-32523.html#cgid=Wedding_Guest_Edit_Selections_WW&is=false&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=strappy-animal-metallic-dress-32523&pos=9

If you don't mind wearing black to a wedding: www.uterque.com/gb/collection/dresses-and-jumpsuits/long-strappy-dress-with-embroidery-c1862512p9132367.html?colorId=800&stylism=02&xmset=2

www.uterque.com/gb/collection/dresses-and-jumpsuits/polka-dot-midi-dress-c1862512p9131557.html?colorId=620

I love that orange dress @SummaLuvin

I'll have to echo @BlairWaldorfLovesShopping in that Ted Baker and Reiss are definitely not cool.

32 and my go to for events are Kitri Studio, Shrimps and Rixo. I get a lot of things from the preloved section from OnLoan or The Outnet preloved.onloan.co/collections/browse-all

Omg cool people of mumsnet I totally bow down! So I do like reiss and ted baker but a bit too slick for me (can’t pull of that polish), love the chic dresses all round though!! I also wish they’d use vaguely normal models because I think “I could wear that” and then look like a twat. Going to try the frenchie/ London labels and see what comes up

THANK YOU! Any other suggestions very welcome!