Another tip (learnt the hard way): If you've got a long hair (or several), crazy eyebrows or an unsightly mole on your face, it's quite possible NO ONE will tell you. It's also likely that you won't always be able to see it yourself in the normal scheme of things. So, it's good to check yourself out every so often. (I have a magnifying glass.)
Unsightly mole? Do fuck off.
I have two “unsightly moles” on my face. Yes I am very aware they are there- they aren’t like spots or blemishes that are temporary and can be covered, they’re fucking permanent.
And yes I had a mother who had the same opinion as you, that moles are “unsightly” and got dragged to many, many, doctors in my youth.
A) i don’t actually mind them, they’re just moles.
B) i don’t give a fuck about others opinions, what am i supposed to do? Cut them off with a kitchen knife?
C) the opinion of those many, many doctors is that the scar from removal will be much larger and more unsightly, and in one case may affect the line of my eyebrow making it wonky and uneven.
But yeah, if moles make me ugly and you can’t bear to look at me, then keep your judgy opinions away as well.
This is why I hate “beauty”. People have a defined idea of what is beautiful and if you don’t fit it you’re worthless.
I will stick to my moles, wild eyebrows, make up free face, converse, low waisted jeans and vest tops. It’s how i feel comfortable, and personally I think I look a damn sight better than many fake tanned, plucked, waxed, groomed, self conscious “beautiful people”.