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Old ladies are actually experts at life, and we are fools (continued)

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AiryFairyMum · 30/06/2020 11:38

Thank you so much for all your brilliant suggestions. I'm aware the last thread is running out, so I've added a new one, just in case we have any more suggestions from a bygone era, or we want to review any new purchases (I have loads on order at the moment!). Thanks to @kojolo for the thread title. Here's the link to the old one: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mumsnet_classics/3944582-To-realise-I-like-old-lady-things

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MilleniumHallsWalledGarden · 03/08/2020 15:24

As far as I know, it just involves sticking the brambles in some whisky for a few weeks. I've only tried a couple of sips but it was lovely!

InglouriousBasterd · 03/08/2020 15:45

I fell off the thread so placemarking as I found you again!

Reading September at the moment, it’s so gentle.

EasilyDelighted · 03/08/2020 17:27

I preserve all sorts as I have an allotment. Strawberry jam, runner bean chutney, sun dried tomatoes, cucumber dill pickles, pickled onions, redcurrant jelly, chilli jelly, caramelised onion chutney. It's a very enjoyable pastime.

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 03/08/2020 22:00

Excellent! I have just discovered that the "inedible" plums on the tree in our garden are in fact very tasty! We have scads of them, so plum jam it is!

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 03/08/2020 22:36

Ooh. I'd lost you! How lovely to find you all again. Settles down with a blanket and a nice cup of tea to catch up...

Teaandscone · 04/08/2020 03:51

To those lacking a Be-ro book,

d-a-v-e.org/documents/Be-Ro_CookBook.pdf

mathanxiety · 04/08/2020 04:38

Oh thank you so much for the Be-ro cookbook Star

I am gasping at all the lard Shock but I use butter in my baking so I shouldn't really be clutching my pearls.

JeSuisPoulet · 04/08/2020 04:53

I was just reading through and thinking the exact same math.
Thank you for sharing that! Now I need one for jams and chutneys Grin

EasilyDelighted · 04/08/2020 06:06

I get most of my jam and chutney recipes from the BBC Good Food magazine (I'm a subscriber and keep a file of recipes going back to when I first had my own home). I do use my phone for recipe searching too but tend to print out ones I like.

I have two Be-Ro books, the 35th ed from the 1980s and the second to newest one from about 5 years ago. There is far less lard used in the newer one. They are such useful little books.

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 06/08/2020 22:08

My mum has old an Allinson's cookbook with a recipe for Shrewsbury biscuits that is a failsafe for toddlers. Also an old Good Housekeeping cookbook of her mum's.

I have total pensioner envy atm.

SquirrelFan · 10/08/2020 09:00

Did someone recommend The Prial on here? If so, thank you so much! I've now got a lovely white Victorian-style nightgown, perfect for this weather!

bluerad · 10/08/2020 09:20

I've just looked at my bedside table and think it's turning rather nicely into an old lady one. I have my reading glasses, my glass of water in case I get a tickle throat in the night, an alarm clock that lights up when I press it so I can see the time in the dark. My tube of handcream and box of tissues sit side by side with my clip on reading light and my book of poetry (101 poems to get you through the day and night). All within arm's reach. Bliss.

JeSuisPoulet · 10/08/2020 09:30

I found a link for cooking with lavender for another thread the other day www.masterclass.com/articles/learn-how-to-cook-with-lavender-plus-10-recipes-that-use-culinary-lavender#10-lavender-recipes if anyone else can use it.

EasilyDelighted · 10/08/2020 13:56

@SquirrelFan yes, that was me, I've never actually bought anything from them but pass their shop fairly regularly and it always looks lovely.

SquirrelFan · 10/08/2020 14:04

@EasilyDelighted thank you! Their PJs are amazing, too; unfortunately had to send back as didn't fit. Will be watching their website!

Teal99 · 10/08/2020 14:18

What a simply delightful thread....

Anne French Cleansing Milk
Badedas and Fenjal
Bakewell Tart
New Tricks
Fair Isle Sweaters
Cardigans
Woolovers knitwear
Rose soap
Crumpets
Some Hotter shoes/some Skechers
Comfy bras and pants
Chenille socks for wearing around the house in winter
Bone China and Earl Grey

AiryFairyMum · 13/08/2020 23:55

Mmm crumpets...

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WalkingInTheAir13 · 14/08/2020 10:18

@NannyOgg66
Thank you for reminding me of The Chamomile Lawn by Mary Wesley - the mini-series in the early nineties - wonderful and unusual!
I am going to track down the book now.

Odile13 · 14/08/2020 14:57

I love these threads! Really enjoyed reading them so thanks for so many ideas. Some things that resonate with me are:

Glass of sherry
Anne Tyler / Maeve Binchy novels
Cream tea
Classics on audiobook
Eau de Cologne from Boots
A sit down with a cup of camomile tea
Nivea face cream
Vanilla body spray
Swiss roll
Fancy soap
Lavender scents
Columbo
Whodunnits
Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier (there’s something about the descriptions of all the food served at Manderley that I really love, as well as the general tone of the book)
Prioritising comfort - being happy in flat shoes, looser clothing etc
Going for a stroll
Enjoying peace and quiet
Browsing in libraries and bookshops

LondonJax · 14/08/2020 15:10

@JeSuisPoulet - not my preserving but a friend of mine preserved cherries in brandy. She's been using some on ice cream but saved a few. Near Christmas she takes them out and dips them in dark chocolate...ohhhh...

One old lady thing that I love is a bed jacket. Even when I was little I loved snuggling up in bed in one when I wanted to read. A dressing gown just gets all bunched up. I feel like Miss Marple in my one! Just need a little bed bonnet thing to complete the look...

MitziK · 14/08/2020 20:06

Finally escaped from my pesky work requirements... and there are THREE threads to enjoy!

DP has definitely been turned into a little old man. Last week, he agreed to come with me to a junk an antique shop in search of a couple of kitchen chairs. Bearing in mind that I had primed him with the particular price range for new wooden chairs (made with bits of trees, rather than the sawdust off the floor and some glue), we stepped into the gloomy depths.

By the end of this, not only was he trying to work out how to get an Edwardian Gentlemen's wardrobe and a tallboy upstairs (we didn't buy, but he definitely wanted it), we came out and headed for the bus stop with a pair of solid oak chairs made around 1780-95. The best bit? He noticed a knot had fallen out of the seat and the owner gave us that chair for free.

Guess the price for these? Including £3 for bus travel, £8. Yup. The chairs worked out at £2.50 each because they weren't elaborate Regency, ladderbacks, bent wood or covered with motheaten horsehair pads (all of which were at least £95 each). Got them home and they could have been made for us - the height isn't standard, it's perfect for shortarses to sit on with feet flat on the floor.

That evening, I thought of something that made him smile. 'You know these chairs are Oak? Well, the tree that was cut down to make them was a mature tree at the same time as the Salem Witch Trials were happening.'

He now calls them our Witchy chairs.

I've also bought a larger size thanks to lockdown flared, below knee, black skirt for work. It's not a circle skirt or anything that's costumey, but it looks comfortable. If anybody knows of places that do plain coloured tweed/herringbone skirts for fat old ladies plus sizes without costing an absolute fortune, I'd definitely be interested.

NannyOgg66 · 15/08/2020 18:08

@WalkingInTheAir13 you're welcome! Smile I've been watching lighthearted stuff like this since lockdown. Another one of my favourites is the series Monarch of the Glen with Susan Hampshire and Richard Briers, I'm not sure if it counts as an old lady one though! My husband says it's twee and everything is always allright at the end, so I guess it might Smile

Fortiesfrazzled · 15/08/2020 19:53

Have just worked my way through this lovely thread. Can relate to everything so much. Love a good charity shop rummage. Have missed looking in them so much.
Loving the book recommendations too. Have bought a copy of Miss Read, Village School.
Has anyone read any Catherine Cookson? Love her books.

WalkingInTheAir13 · 17/08/2020 13:26

@Teaandscone

Belated but a great big THANK YOU for the Be-Ro cookbook!

I've printed off the whole book and put it into a folder. Wonderful!

invisibleoldwoman · 20/08/2020 17:37

Love these threads. Special thanks to the people who recommended Rosamund Pilcher and Tracy Chevalier books. Loving them.