@Ninkaninus on so much of that we can agree.
I wear stuff I like, often because I feel it suits me and it looks good. I think the three are intertwined.
If I want to wear a jumpsuit I will do so whether I’m a stone over my ideal or not.
On this, in particular, we must definitely agree because I have just ordered a jumpsuit, inspired by Meghan in her black Everlane number the other day.
I am, broadly (pun very much intended), the same shape as her - although, as I have said before, considerably older and dumpier (and at least a stone over my ideal).
But if it looks half good and I like it, I will wear it - and I'd stand up for anyone's right to do the same.