Find me a haircut please! (pic)

[StillMedusa]

I'm 51, scrawny and haggard, grey at the front, salt and pepper down the sides and still dark brown at the back. Naturally wavy with frizz (gets GHD-d a lot)
I'm staying natural..grew out all my colour 3 years ago and would like to be all silver one day!
Dh says 'chop it off'
DD2 says 'don't chop it you always regret it, just get a fringe'
My Mother feels I'm getting on a bit for long hair...
I have no idea what I want and have pinterested til my eyes are squiffy!

I'd like to have the guts to go short, but last time I did I hated it..hence the dangly hair now!

I also have NO idea what suits me!!!

Any suggestions gratefully received!

Long bob/lob.

You've got a lovely face

I'd chop to above shoulder and have a side fringe. Bit like this

Watching with interest .Agree you have lovely face. I think the photo style is my answer!!!

You're beautiful. Long bob with a sweeping fringe.

I agree with a bob It will make your hair look thicker and a side swept fringe would really suit you.

Also yes to the silver! Go for it x

Just put my thumbs by the side of your neck on the picture and agree. Shorter hair would suit you better. 👍🏻

Get some layers and dry your hair upside down.

Do not go short.

YEP - would look better shorter and with more volume at the sides to balance out the long face.

I would go for a long Bob also I wouldn't get a fringe just yet wait and see!
I think bobs look really classy and u can still tie it back if it's annoys u getting a fringe can be alot of faff if u are not used to it .
Where your hair curves under ur chin just now would be the most flattering length I think please post an after pic so we can all see

I think bob too OP, it would really suit you. And do you fuck look haggard, you look great!

If your hair is fine then I would not layer, I agree a long bob with side swept fringe.

This would look nice.

go short!! Look at pixie cuts on Instagram

Long bob with a side fringe.

Long bob vote too. You are beautiful

I'd vote for no layers.

Another vote for a lob, think it would really suit you. Have you ever had a fringe? Not sure from this photo if your hair would fall into a blunt fringe (which your face would suit) or not but if you know it would then that might be a possibility as well.

You say it's naturally wavy with a frizz. If you use the curly girl method then how much wave/curl do you have? I'd stop straightening it and embrace your natural texture. Wavy hair is gorgeous. Better for the condition as well.

Curly girl is only any good if you have an hour and half every day to 'plop' and let your hair dry naturally.

This isn't realistic for most people.

I have naturally wavy, frizzy hair, but it's less work to BBH and GHD it, than the incredible amount of faff that comes with the curly girl method.

Another vote for the long Bob with a sweeping fringe and some highlights too.

I think you look great! Also I think a bit of length suits you’ll here’s another vote for a long bob. Would love to see an ‘after’ pic if you feel like sharing! X

Definitely go shorter. It will give your hair more volume and life. Give it a couple of weeks after the haircut to decide what to do about the colour.

You lot aren't helping I was hoping for a unanimous 'chop it' or 'leave it'!!!
My fringe splits at the side..I could train it/blast it down but it tends to curl from the root there...so would have to be a side fringe!

Arrgh! Appointment tomorrow and I'm still undecided!
I do think it suits me better shorter but it's more work as I have to straighten it or it turns into a fuzzy mullet! But long, grey and tied in a pony tail makes me look like I'm going to work on my broomstick...

Whatever you decide don't forget to update with a post appointment pic!

You don't look scrawny or haggard to me. I like the long bob side fringe idea.