I’ve always felt that Meghan and Kate joining forces could do a lot. I know Kate is focused on mental health and early years intervention, but a few things around girls/young women could be linked to her natural leanings and it would fit with Meghan’s focus too. It would also be incredibly powerful to see the two of them working together. I think the fact that they haven’t done anything together (except Wimbledon) is more about the standard approach taken by the family and is not because of a mutual dislike – the queen occasionally takes someone with her (more now that Philip is retired), but there aren’t a lot of joint engagements for the different groups. Which I assume is at least partly about resourcing – why merge them when you can get more bang for your buck by putting them out at different places for different causes. But oh, the missed opportunity….
Having said that, Kate’s concerns re girls specifically will possibly change as Charlotte grows. I think if I was her and William, I’d be terrified for Charlotte. The boys will have intense media attention, of course, but Charlotte’s will be amplified by being the only girl and the deep seated misogyny of the press and the broader world will be frighteningly visible*. If she’s concerned about her children’s mental health, which clearly she is, this will potentially drive her to start thinking and caring about some of the issues Meghan has long been focused on.
*I actually worry a lot about Charlotte. The boys will be able to be “lads”. Their first sexual experiences or drinking moments were largely unobserved, or if not, there wasn’t much judgement. But can you imagine if the first boy Charlotte kisses brags about it or if she falls madly in love as a 16 year old and the boy involved shares pictures or messages? Ditto the body shaming – if she’s not always perfectly slim, how quickly will that be pointed out when she’s in public? If she gets drunk and does something silly, how many people will be out there looking to take advantage of her? It terrifies me.
Sorry for the essay.